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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Hoogness, Aug 16, 2017.

  1. Hoogness

    Hoogness New Fapstronaut

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    Hello everyone.

    I'm going to be turning 31 this year. I am married and have a son who is 3 years old and a daughter on the way. PMO has pretty much killed any emotions and love I have had for my wife. We have been married for 5 years. Nearly all of that time I have been addicted to PMO. I have experienced PMO in some form almost on a daily basis since I ran across it when I was 13 or 14. I don't recall if a friend introduced me or if I accidentally first saw it when online. There was a period of time before our marriage (around 6 months of our engagement) where I was free and clean of PMO.

    I do not want this to be a part of my family. I want to get rid of it and be free and clear like I was during those 6 months. I want to be able to be loving and have emotions toward my wife. I want my son and daughter to see what healthy love for a spouse is like. Because right now, these last few years, porn has killed love. I do not know how to love or how to receive it.

    This is why I joined NoFap.

    Hello everyone.
     
  2. LakeMichigan

    LakeMichigan Fapstronaut

    @Hoogness welcome to nofap. Congratulations on going to become father again! Its is great that you want to raise a family in a loving environment! I believe Nofap will help you a lot in achieving that dream. I encourage you to start a journal and keep coming here and you will make progress! I wish you good luck!
     
  3. Hoogness

    Hoogness New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks LakeMichigan! I'm going on a day with no PMO. That's pretty huge for me. And funny that someone with the name of LakeMichigan would respond to my intro. I'm from Michigan. Another thing that tells me that I'm supposed to be doing this. Woohoo!
     
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  4. D . J .

    D . J . Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap where you are amongst friends who are here to encourage you and sometimes challenge you but not judge you.

    The enemy is here to steal, kill and destroy. What are your current strategies for combating the enemy called PMO?
     
  5. HeavyTiny

    HeavyTiny Fapstronaut

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    I'm brand new here too. That is the best reason. I don't have a family yet but am a similar age and really worry about what will happen when I do. Best of luck! I feel like just joining up is a good first step.
     
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