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Hello! I need help, I need to change my life

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Hello_Shooting_Star, Aug 15, 2018.

  1. Aug 15, 2018 #1
    Hello_Shooting_Star

    Hello_Shooting_Star New Fapstronaut

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    I am 17 and i masturbate 5 times a week. I rarely watch porn, but if i do i only search for google images of naked men. It sounds gay, and maybe it is, although i keep on reminding myself i am not gay and i act rather manly when im around other people. I get attracted to girls too, but it takes me more time to get hard thinking of gjrls than when thinking of boys. I dont want to be gay. I want to set myself straight and i hope abstaining from porn and masturbation can help me, along with your help and support. Is it still possible for me to be straight?
    Also, i think the reason why im thinking kinda gay is because im insecure about my dick. I'm asian and although i know it should be smaller than others, its below the average size in our locality. Will there still be a chance to increase its length?
     
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  2. Aug 15, 2018 #2
    Just Rose

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    Hello and welcome! I have no idea if it's going to grow but some guys over here report a penis growth. About your sexual orientation, yeah, must of us have been thinking we were homosexual because a mind used to porn tends to go more extreme, but you won't find out you *real* sexual orientation until you achieve some abstinence time, I was like you, 5 masturbation sessions a week with no porn, and it took me a month to realize I'm not lesbian. Good luck on your trip, werew all here for you :)
     
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  3. Aug 15, 2018 #3
    Hello_Shooting_Star

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    Thank you for your support! I'll do my best
     
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  4. Aug 16, 2018 #4
    Panthera pardus

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    Hello,

    You are still ferry joung, you should be carefull whit yourselfe, if you stop the PMO that will help you finding out, what you really want and what you are able to do.
    If Girls are sexual atractiv for you, i guess you could live a "normal" Live , you really have to try it out and be honest whit your selfe.
    If you like Boys and Girls it does not mean you are Gay, it means you are Bi. It is not easy to have both attractions but it is not the worse thing in the world.
    My advice would be: Stop the PMO, find out, how far you can go whit a Girl, be honest whit yourself and finde out, where your love goes. And if it goes whit a Boy, its not the ende of the world.
     
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  5. Aug 16, 2018 #5
    Hello_Shooting_Star

    Hello_Shooting_Star New Fapstronaut

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    Thank you so much for your encouragement!!
     
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    You've caught on early buddy, well done, insecurity is a result of what you had been watching, you will not just find comfort in your body after quitting, but you'll appreciate it as well. We're all here for you, and support you along the way. KEEP IT UP. (not literally xD)
     
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  7. Aug 16, 2018 #7
    fireblaster

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