Hello family ( sorry long Read)

Hey is that Rocko from Nic?!

Welcome mate!

 

Hey buddy, welcome!

You're not alone here - most of us have.

I am sure you will be successful here - you are no longer alone in your struggle: we are all here to help each other.

So you're not perfect! Wow, neither are any of us or any other person on the planet. You will not be judged here, whatever your choices or fetishes. No one is better than anyone else, no one's fetish or preferences is worse than anyone else's. There are many guys here with exactly your fetishes too, so you will find support here.

You most certainly will, my friend! Good luck on your journey.

 

Hey man sounds like I'm in a very similar situation as you. Keep powering through!

 

I want to add my welcome too, never give up. We all fall down from time to time, in every area of our lives. It doesn’t matter how we fell down, the only thing that does matter is how we pick ourselves back up.

 

Great! That was very courageous! Especially to tell the girl. Your courage will ultimately be your ticket to a PMO-free life.

 

Sometimes, people can be on this site for several years going round and round in a vicious circle of small streaks of a few days and innumerable relapses, masturbating to other people having sex. Often, what makes the difference is when they hit rock bottom. That is the reason I have mentioned this to you. You are at the perfect moment to successfully address your addiction. You recently hit rock bottom, giving you the best possible motivation to get rid of this shit once and for all.

 

Yes, what @IGY said. We have all been round and round the relapse cycle so look for the catalyst that could lift you out. For me it was finding NoFap, though I am reluctant to write that because who knows when I'll join you on Day 0 (well Day 2 as I type.)

 

Welcome! Keep fighting the urge!

 

I agree. From 35 years AA experience and several years in SAA (sex addicts anonymous) I’ve seen time and time again that NO ONE ever gets truly serious about recovery til they’ve had a significant, life-altering, horrible experience due to their addiction that grabbed them by the neck and put them face-down on the floor. Your life has to totally blow up in your face, and you see clear as day how fragile life is, and how - if you continue like you are in your addiction - you will either die physically - or die spiritually. It has to literally scare the fuck out of you.