In the Fall, I'm leaving to a college called New Mexico Tech. It's in a very small and uneventful place called Socorro. I'm going there because it's really affordable as far as college goes. the school is something over 1400 strong and almost almost exclusively male. I know in my head that maybe it would be best for me to be in this environment. I know clearly that I do not deserve and have no right to pour my issues and addiction on another person. But I still feel sad and I could use some help. for guys in college who are lonely, how do you get over it? I'm trying all the standard cookie cutter advice like get a job, go to the gym, get over it, etc. I still get those pangs now and then and I don't know how to stop them. I know for absolutely certain that just having a relationship will never make me feel better. I will never feel happy just because their's someone there to dump my problems on. how do I feel happy?