I just got a call from his sister . He called her and said it “ I have a porn addiction , it happened before and it came back recently “ They had along conversation, she told him she was going to reach out to me . She told him he need to take the boys out and him to tell HIS story , as their father . We had a good conversation, as my SIL she isn’t judging anything . Her husband is an alcoholic, sober 5 years did all the work . She asked what I was thinking . I said I was happy for HIM THat that must have been REALLY hard for him and freeing at the same time . As for “Us” I told her there isn’t an US . I don’t know if there will ever be an US again . The damage of the lying and hiding , I think for me has come to the end of the road .Ill never be lied to again . To ensure this , I can not be with him . I care about him . I want him to get the help and support he needs . But not from me in that way .