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Having Trouble with women? Try picking them up when drunk/high

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by FindingAName, Jun 16, 2017.

Is picking up women while drunk/high good/easier?

  1. Yes

    23.8%
  2. No

    61.9%
  3. Fuck yeah

    14.3%
  1. FindingAName

    FindingAName Banned User

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    Bieng drunk or high makes you more open and trustworthy more confident and socially active. i would 100% recommend getting drunk/high and then chatting a girl up {provided she is drunk/high too} give me your feedback please :) also, why is everybody voting no?
     
    Last edited: Jun 17, 2017
  2. Runtilmylegsdropoff

    Runtilmylegsdropoff Fapstronaut

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  3. HipPete

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    I mean, it's what you do in a bar. It maybe is easier since you've loosened up and just want to have fun. If your mindset is not to be uptight and serious, alcohol is your friend. Smoking weed can make it seem like you're more social too.

    Weed tends to give you this chill and relaxed mindset. It could help you or get you paranoid based on your current vibrational level and the weed's energy level. It's all pseudoscience but I think it's valid. If the weed is a sativa and you're in a chilled out/calm mindset then there's going to be a clash of energy resulting in major paranoia, vs if you're smoking a Indica and vice versa. Now there's also hybrid and those are the best. Remember to stay hydrated or you'll green out. Also certain factors apply such as environment, hunger and intake level. That's based on my 4 years recreational smoking. I've quit now and don't plan to go back unless I can find a female girlfriend to enjoy it with.
     
  4. FindingAName

    FindingAName Banned User

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    and why is that?
     
  5. nginx2

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    I think it depends on the amount. You shouldn't be so drunk that you cannot talk properly and stumble over your own feet.

    But a slight level might relax you and make you more talkative, I think it would help some.

    However there is the risk of becoming dependent on alcohol and thinking, that you need it to approach women.
     
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  6. FindingAName

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    yes that is a risk, but i have found drinking half a bottle of vodka really helps me talk to just about anyone :) im drunk so any kind of behaviour is acceptable in a way, if u were to fall over in public you feel like an idiot and embarressed, if you were drunk and fell over in public you wouldnt care because you were drunk, and smoking mariijuana helps with the same stuff
     
  7. The Consigliere

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    I haven't had alcohol before, but from my experience at parties and such, it can be easier to a certain degree. That depending on how much alcohol is in your system, your tolerance level and how much you have drunk that night. Same I feel goes for marijuana. I have smoked on very few occasions, but I do feel pretty chill, more social and even confident after a few hits and about a blunt or two. It's different from what I have seen with friends. But again this is to a certain. Depending on the strain of marijuana or how much alcohol you have had, it can be a better or worse experience with women for you. I have seen friends of mine get their asses kicked and hurt on several occasions trying to "impress themselves" for women and even vice versa. Just be careful.
     
  8. FindingAName

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    be careful *downs half a bottle of vodka and smokes a blunt*
     
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  9. FindingAName

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    i agree, but its much easier to feel loved and appreciated when you are intoxicated
     
  10. Alcohol has the potential to wreck your life far worse than porn.
    There is no such thing as "good" drunk sex, plus "chatting a girl up when she's drunk/high" is an extremely dangerous thing to do, and I think you already know why. It make no difference if you're also drunk.
     
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  11. FindingAName

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    its easier to talk to women or pick them up if your drunk/high ik the damaging effect of alcohol but its not like im doing this every damn day, just every once in a while. i dont really see the problem, and yeah i can kinda imagine drunk sex bieng bad lmao
     
  12. Don't do what is easier, do what is right and healthy for your mind and body. Everything you need in order to have a girlfriend is already inside yourself. If you need courage read lots of jokes and watch lots of comedies to improve your sense of humor. Do a team sport and look good in order to improve your self-esteem. Study, read about other cultures and travel (if you have the possibility), in order to widen your horizons. Also, people who are good pair dancers are highly appreciated by women. And the list could go on forever. Search google 'how to improve myself'.
     
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  13. FindingAName

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    this would take a serious ammount of time and effort and money, the drunk/high thing is more like a quick solution and more times then not i will take it
     
  14. For me, it's much easier when I'm drunk bc I literally don't care what I'm saying plus I'm more sexual with them. When I'm high is not the same story, I sometimes have paranoia when I smoke weed. Which is strange to me.

    But getting buzzed, like 3-4 beers right up to the point where I start laughing at nothing really is when it's best with the ladies bc I'm more fun and I think girls really just want to have fun, at least in my age group in college. Of course though these girls are all in sororitits so I'm not sure about real,grown women lol
     
  15. wanohasama

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    I don't recommend picking up women when drunk, because the first time I pick up a beautiful woman when I'm drunk is actually a success, but whenever I'm out of the bar I'm a completely a loser again. So I've tried to pick up women when I'm awake and learn lots of lessions out of it instead of just doing it without even remember how, now I have 80% of success when it comes to pick up women, still better than doing it while drunk.
     

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