HARD TO TALK TO HER AND ASK HER OUT.

Can you explain the 7 day waiting period. You can meet and talk outside of church.

 

Why is the Dad so strict? Let me guess ultra religious

 

PREVIOUSLY ON THE LAST EPISODE!

"You walked in on the girl you liked kissing the evil villain? Sorry to say dude, but you just had an anime moment. The fact that you didn't go Super Saiyan right then and there means that your rating is going to go down and you'll lose fans.

But there's hope

If you don't want your show to get canceled, you're going to have to grow some dragon balls and start making moves. The fans love it when the main character just goes head first without thinking. That might just be what you have to do. Otherwise, you're getting canceled bro."

. . .

That was July 22. Almost a month ago.

The villain (me) went on vacation, and you are still alone. The producers lost their job, the show is on the brink of cancellation, and your girl is all alone waiting for Ace Charming.

Alli was just a small town church girl looking for her small town Ace guy, but where was he? Protecting his own self esteem.

He was much too vulnerable. He was protecting himself from hurt. Quitting a porn addiction was hard enough. If he was rejected by "The One," relapse would be inevitable.

Ace didn't know how valuable he was.

He didn't know that he was the main character.

He didn't know that he was Gold...

No girl can change that, But alas, one thing has to change to save the show...

...

The Evil Villain would have to become a support character.

I'm giving up my spot. We are going to text and we are going to get through this. I'll help you with the format and you're going to get this girl. (Or I'll double cross you and get her myself).

Let's do it.

 

Don't be in a hurry. It's easy trust me. U still feel under pressure coz you feel these girls are out of your league. They are not

Get used to talk more to girls and the girl interested in you will wait and not jump onto someone else lips. Improve your confidence

I was very shy in school. Now I'm very easygoing. I overcame that by talking to people especially guys that I scared about (I'm a girl btw )

 

I understand what you feel. Start to talk to her then asking her out will come out easier

 

You sound like you live in a prison not a home. Dating matters so you can see who you want to marry. Sheltering you from the world doesn't help. I'm not so sure the problem is you. If I were you and you go to college try to go to a place away from home. I'm sure I'm going to get criticized for this post but expose to the secular world matters.

 

It's been over 30 days and nothing significant happened between you two. That needs to change if you really want her. I know you want to take your time and get to know here. But you have to actually step outside your comfort zone and make a move. You drive and she doesn't. Text her and ask if you want to go out sometime. It doesn't have to be a date. Just to hang out. That's all. You can pick her up as well as introduce yourself to her father and get on his good side if he is an issue. Again, you have to make moves here. You started this thread over a month ago and nothing significant happened since then.

 

If you're really that shy, establish casual relationships with the people around her esp. the father. Looking for errands, talking about church and getting to know her more indirectly will not only make a good excuse but also build fundamental relationship with her social circle.

 

think positive and even if she doesn't want to be with you, doesn't mean that no girl want you. she is not the only girl

 

You waited way too long.

 

If you are not assertive it's off putting to women.