Hard mode and uncontrollable desires for gf

Hi all,

Maybe this could be seen as NSFW, before I managed to do soft mode for 87 days when having a long distance relationship with my GF, but now she lives with me.
Everything is ok with us, but I'm fed up of my uncontrollable horniness.

When we are cuddling or just generally lying together somewhere, I want her.

It is my driving motivation, the most powerful feeling, of course we can watch films and things together with not much issue. But the desire is still there.

It is getting tiring of seeing her as a piece of meat, of course I love her and when we are apart it's apparent.

I suffer from sore balls if I get too many election and don't come, so that isn't so healthy.

What is the best way to help the reboot, to not try to touch her, or to just continue as we are now and fight the urges?

Luckily she isn't apposed to the idea of a month, hopefully we can stretch to 3.
At the moment the goal is a week. The 2, etc.

I really hate this desire for sex.

Plus when I'm horny, it just becomes too easy to objectify women around me.

Any recommendations guys?
Also I'm 29, if that makes any difference.

Thank you all for your advice.

 

Hi complacency Kills,

I do suffer from erectile dysfunction, it is only minor and has never caused any issues in our relationship, my GF is probably not even aware of it. This is what sent me along the journey of nofap.

I have noticed that even with a little break my erections are stronger during sex, so partly there is some desire to see if they will return back to how they were when i was younger.
My girlfriend really doesn't mind the idea at the moment, maybe when she is feeling horny this will be another story, but that only happens a few times a month and should be bearable for her.

It is not only seeing my girlfriend sexually, it is being so horny most of the time around her that it impairs my perception of the current situation. Sex is all I can think about, with many other things in my life control is not a problem, but with this it is. Also it is generally interesting to see how my behaviour might change after a few months of us being together and not getting laid sometimes.

 

Well that's always a possibility here, I'll keep you updated!

The main worry is how we really make up after all the arguments!