Hahaha, 90 days no porn...again!

BeginningOfNewLife · May 14, 2015

Very nice post man..Full of inspiration! I also congratulate you for your achievement and wish better future for you and your GF.

transmute · May 15, 2015

EarthDragon said: ↑

Thanks Abu X. I just wanted to reflect on what you said a bit. First of all, a relapse is no coincidence. It doesn't happen "just like that". There are like a hundred things preceding it and you can consciously intervene at any step.
-You decide to PMO
-You switch on the computer, phone, whatever
-You open browser, type, search etc
-You undress a bit, prepare tissue, lube, whatever
-You start watching and doing your thing
-You keep doing it for a while...could be even hours.
The whole process doesn't happen at an instant, and you can always say no somewhere. It's like a slide, the further you are down, the harder to stop, but still, it can be done. So I hope you will not decide to relapse.

Maybe I just add one more thing, because it can cause some misunderstanding or confusion. Yes, I have a gf and we are very happy together, but we are not having sex (or anything else besides a kiss) because we are not married yet. So I have no outlet for my sexual energies.

Thank for all of your responses, I greatly appreciate them!
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Have you ever read Lance Dodes' books on addiction? Lol, this great insight you speak of is in line with the wisdom in those books. Great stuff.

Also inspiring to see you and your gf not having sex until you may get married, a value I would like to uphold when I am in a relationship.

Deleted Account · May 15, 2015

transmute said: ↑

Have you ever read Lance Dodes' books on addiction? Lol, this great insight you speak of is in line with the wisdom in those books. Great stuff.

Also inspiring to see you and your gf not having sex until you may get married, a value I would like to uphold when I am in a relationship.
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No, I'm unfamiliar with that book. You mean it says something like I wrote? Maybe I should write a book then.

You would? Really? Let me tell you, it's not easy. On the other hand, it's rewarding. Before I became a christian, I had some gfs where we had sex on the first day, or week. And now I have this relationship, under Christ where I waited for almost 5 months for the first kiss. Guess which one I value more? Guess which one I will remember more?

Thanks for the comment, and I wish you strength!

Surrender · May 15, 2015

You are the man!

Buzzltyr · May 18, 2015

EarthDragon said: ↑

Thanks everyone for the encouragement. I just wanted to add, that I made it to a hundred! So now I'm officially a member of the three digit warrior clan.
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Awesome!

KaiserKhan786 · May 18, 2015

Congrats

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