Had sex; couldn't lose boner!

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by SuperSayianCaulifla, Nov 6, 2017.

  1. SuperSayianCaulifla

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    Lads,

    I started NoFap, because I kept losing my boner with the ladies. Well after a long tough year of breaking my wanking habits even with a few setbacks. I have made progress.

    I found myself a pretty lady, a little heavy (but I didn't mind haha) and after multiple beers, a bit of ganja I couldn't lose my boner and I can say with glee; I busted all kinnnndddddzzzz

    Gotta say it was relieving as fuck and shows how progress can be made. Stick with it lads. Don't fall back.
     
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  2. malimali

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    Nice! When did you first start noticing an improvement?
     
  3. Third_Eye

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    Okay it's great that you rebooted, congrats on that :)

    But did you really have to talk about your sexual experience?
     
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  4. rubedo

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    its not like he gave any details, come on
     
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  5. Third_Eye

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    I know, but still.

    If I talked about me having sex for the first time and I felt good, would it really matter?
     
  6. hotshot_platinum

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    AFTER 26 YEARS, I have finally given up PMO. I am able to log into a computer and do anything but search for pornography. I am rapidly approaching day 90 and do not see a relapse in sight. Trust me, i have been tempted to my limit! In the past it was always stress, boredom, uncontrollable urges, sadness, loneliness etc that made me give in. The first few days, weeks, and month were almost impossible to survive. I even had thoughts of just not living anymore! I knew it was just the addiction talking! It will do anything and everything to make you relapse. DONT GIVE IN! DONT GIVE UP! I still hit some flat lines along the way and felt completely depressed. The overall feeling of accomplishment and new found VALUE to oneself outweighs the STRUGGLE. I can focus better, have more ambition, see women as people (not things). These are just a few things i have noticed. Good luck to all of you, on your journey. Do whatever it takes to beat these demons! I have turned to God and the holy spirit for help and guidance in case you are wondering what i used to cope and become victorious.
     
  7. SuperSayianCaulifla

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    probably after 90 days of with maybe 2,3 setbacks. I was on a streak of 30,40 days and I started to get boners thinking about girls. Honestly, just make progress. Every single day. You'll get it bro. If you want to speed up the progress don't allow set backs, no matter what the little evil voice says
     
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  8. SuperSayianCaulifla

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    Congrats on being a professionally offended bum.

    But did you really have to write something negative?

    Look Bro,
    It was mostly a bit of fun. Fuck me. I don't see the problem. Maybe you are thinking this might make someone feel sad, because it may seem like I am bragging? but you are forgetting that most people will laugh, and then will take it as motivation. To me, that is what is important. Not the feelings of 1 in 1000 who get upset by what I say.
     
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  9. SuperSayianCaulifla

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    You are an inspiration, my friend. Continue getting after it. Don't give in to that little voice no matter what and you will continue to see improvements.
     
  10. Third_Eye

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    No, but i wouldn't share shit that is only my business.

    Look, all i'm gonna do is just continue with my reboot.

    Sorry for the negative comments, i just feel like it's weird when people share their personal business. I am not motivated by the sex, by the way.

    Bye
     
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  11. SuperSayianCaulifla

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    What is your business is defined by you. As my business is defined by me. You don't have to share your sexual experiences and I shouldn't get upset with you and if I share mine you shouldn't get upset with mine? Fair?

    I am sorry I may have come across quite harsh, but I just hate political correctness and your comment flashed me with that. I just feel you have brought negative feelings onto yourself by getting upset by what others say and then brought it to me.

    I sincerely wish you the best on your journey brother. Stick with it.
     
  12. Third_Eye

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    Yup, you too
     
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  13. malimali

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    Thanks, bro. I really appreciate the words of encouragement. I've been struggling with PMO for about a decade now and I plan on beating it. I'm looking forward to the day I notice an improvement with my erections.

    I'm not the guy you replied to but I just wanted to share my opinion. If you're not interested in people sharing their personal business, then it's best to avoid threads like this. You can't police people's thoughts. I'm totally fine with him sharing something personal like that. I don't know if it triggered you in some way or it just goes against your personal beliefs. Regardless, best of luck with you on rebooting. I'm in the process of rebooting too.
     
  14. LogicX

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    It's realy comforting to hear it's working. I just had a setback, but will get there too.
    My support to all of you!! Cause I know I need it!
     
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  15. SuperSayianCaulifla

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    Don't let it stop you brother! Setbacks are only a pot hole in the road, but don't let it be an excuse to run over pot holes if you get what I mean!
     
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  16. LogicX

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    Well spoken. Thanks.
     
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