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Had a wet dream, ejaculated but stopped the orgasm

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by 528hertz, Dec 20, 2018.

  1. 528hertz

    528hertz New Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys! This is my first post on here, however I have been reading your threads and following the community for around a year now.

    I'm now on a good run, no porn desires, no masturbation.. the thing is something happened to me twice and I wanted your opinions on it.

    Yesterday I met a girl that I was talking to for a few weeks on and off.. we had a great time and shared alot of cuddling and affectionate moments. Then the tension built up and we started doing more sexual things, but we didn't go to the final step of having sex. I was totally in control and told myself I wouldn't cum, and with success.

    Now here's the tricky part.. tonight during my sleep, my subconscious mind brought up to me images where I would be with her and cumming a whole damn lot on her (Refering to the fact that high amounts of semen would have built up during our sexual acts together). From that moment, It's like if I was almost at a point of being aware that it was a dream but couldn't reach the lucid dreaming state yet...

    I then realized that when I came in my dream, I also came in my underwears. However, it didn't stop there...

    Being half aware of what's going on, and thinking it probably was an ejaculation + orgasm wet dream, around 5 seconds after I suddenly felt the real orgasm coming.

    As if there was a delay between the ejaculation and orgasm, and that the ejaculation was nowhere close to this orgasm coming...As soon as I felt the orgasm being close to the point of no return, I managed to control it and avoid it.

    I know wet dreams have shared opinions, on whether they are signs of reboot or signs of not being in full control of our sexual thoughts..
    Let's say we approach this with the idea that wet dreams are because we aren't fully in control yet,

    Was this "pre-orgasm ejaculation" something that I should consider some kind of relapse? Is it an abnormal reaction Ive got down there?

    I'm stucked between "it's nothing, only a small amount of semen has leaked and you managed to stop the orgasm" and "you fooled yourself because in your dream you were coming and you did aswell".

    I would have came at least 2-3 times more with that orgasm coming up afterwards..

    Thanks for your time champs!
     
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  2. Fabian7

    Fabian7 Fapstronaut

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    What day are you on? I’m on day 28 and all my life I have never had a wet dream. I have gotten to the point now where the only time I want to ejaculate is to create life with my future wife. I’ve realised how important our semen is. Especially to walk our highest path and become the best version of ourselves. I also know for a fact pheromones are real. I get women standing extra close to me and randomly talking to me. A girl literally death stared me once at work and she was with her boyfriend and she was attractive. It was uncomfortable so I kept looking away but every time I looked back she was still looking into my soul lol. Men are even attracted to me and respect me more. Especially gay men lol. Our creator is awesome ;)
     
  3. Fabian7

    Fabian7 Fapstronaut

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    Even when I’m walking girls in cars stare at me. When I walk passed a girl they stare at me. I’m not even attractive and I have bad social skills. I’m getting better though
     
  4. Wet dreams are a natural release. I don't consider that a problem. Had you masturbated to completion I would have considered differently.
     
  5. Infrasapiens

    Infrasapiens Fapstronaut

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    I am new here but I don't think wet dreams count as something that you kill your streak, it is not something that you can control. Once again, in my opinion.
     
  6. Fabian7

    Fabian7 Fapstronaut

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    From what I’ve heard when you have a wet dream it gives you that feeling after you relapse because you’ve just ejaculated. It’s not a relapse I know however I would prefer to not have one.. lol
     

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