Had a crush on someone and this happened. . .

Well, she sounds like either a very good person or a very (temporarily) weak willed person. She is not cunning, she is insecure just like the rest of us. Perhaps she saw you as a way out of a bad relationship, or maybe she and her current lover are polyamorous and wanted to invite you. Very pure love there. I think it unwise to assume her calling you bro is any kind of declaration. While I do agree with deleting Facebook, doing it for that reason is practicing extremism and cowardice. There is a block feature.

As far "get her" goes, well, get to really know someone before you decide if they are worth your time. Or, decide that it's just not what you want right now and so you're not interested. But just because she is with someone else does not mean she is not available, because he doesn't own her. That kind of thinking is unfair. Lots of people find a replacement spouse or lover prior to their breakup. Sometimes there is no other option. Yeah, sure, it's practicing cowardice, but give these people a break. Some of them care very deeply about their exes. We only have to serve ourselves, am I right? Body a temple and all.

If this girl is known for being a "temptress" as old white dudes might say, then that just means she doesn't know any other way to get a guy's attention. If you can manage to approach her from the angle that you are attracted to her for reasons she will never fully understand (love) and not because she wants you to be attracted to her, then there may be hope for both of you.

I've said a lot and I hope you find it helpful. Good day.

Oh and one more thing, you may find better starting circumstances, but you will never know ahead of time how things will turn out. Like I said, get to know her.... As a friend.

 

I hope the best. Cheers.

 

Couldnt read ot bc you didnt seperate it into paragraphs. But there's gonna be plenty more ladies out there, so dont sweat it

 

Because people never go offline when you are talking to them.

Yes I know I don't have all the facts, but that one bugged me.