Guys who identify as straight but have sexual encounter with males

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  1. InnerFaith

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    true words..
     
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  2. InnerFaith

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    thats the feeling i carry with me all the time.. that im close to blow my life because of my sexual urges, it led me astray like a floating ice rock parting ways from the antartic, life of confusion and horror that is repressed
     
  3. IGY

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    Don't you think they could be bisexual?
     
  4. davidjuyong

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    if you have sex with male,you have to use the condom to prevent STD for example hiv!take care your body health
     
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  5. Freedom_from_PMO

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    Bisexual erasure is a problem. In the past it was believed that orientation is binary, feeling good with gay sex, means that you are gay, and even now gay part of lgbt community is often hostile of bisexuals for being homosexual in denial, witch is bullshit. Some of those guys might be really bi, but now I believe that the problem of straight guys encountering with men is real, reasons might be various.
     
  6. SpringWater

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    Most of the time no..I do agree there are some that could have leanings but then porn just increases the small inclinations.

    I mean we all have whacked desires that only can increase if we give in.

    I would say people can be born gay but bi is just giving into pure hedonism...or being conditioned by porn.

    If you had crushes on guys and girls as a kid..then you might be bi

    If you had crushes on girls
    You aren’t

    It’s not about pleasure..it’s about where you feel love towards
     
  7. Zapster21

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    LOL! I'm not stupid :D
     
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  8. IGY

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    I never had crushes on anyone.
     
  9. Freedom_from_PMO

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    I think that porn makes you miss your fantasies for things you actually want to do. I heard a story of a guy who was into cuckold porn very much, so he persuaded his wife to participate in it and he find a bull. When they started having sex he was freezed and it was terrible for him instead of arousing. I guess those guys who crave sex with men after PMO addiction just migt have messed perception of fantasies.

    I think that when when I was sissified my fantasies were distorted because when I regained some control I felt that stuff I was sexting and talking to people seemed more than some fantasy or erotica than angthing real.
     
  10. SpringWater

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    I couldn’t imagine having a girl I was with have sex, in front of me, with someone else.

    Shit if my girl was talking to another guy I would be pissed

    What has porn done to us?

    If my girl even kissed someone else..it’s over.

    This was called cheating just a few years ago.

    What guy would do this?

    Unless influenced, brainwashed, by porn?

    Our society is ruined.
     
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  11. SpringWater

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    Really?
    Never felt butterflies for anyone?
     
  12. phwrancesco

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    Man, i dont wanna beat yourself up but is not plenty of straight guys who have sex with men.

    I mean, it's obvious you're not completely straight if you fuck men.
     
  13. IGY

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    Yeah, really. Crush = you are in love with someone but do not have a relationship with them.

    I probably had butterflies at times, but they were never sustained towards someone.
     
  14. Freedom_from_PMO

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    I think especially abuse victims and guys who experience facelessnes can be actually straight. They often aren't even attracted to male bodies.
     
  15. phwrancesco

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    oh i can get what you're saying. Being victim of abuse is a terrible thing i guess :(
     
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  16. 19m

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    what about crossdresser porn ? it has minipulated me to think that i like that even tho i dont am i bi ? or no
     
  17. You've answered part of that yourself. You don't like crossdressing, it's just that porn has temporarily manipulated you into "liking" it.

    Are you bi? Kind of a different question. Probably not. Have you tried avoiding P, M and O for a significant amount of time? And also avoiding unnecessary lust as much as possible. That should help you be more confident about your preference.
     
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  18. EHW100

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    I have an ongoing sexual relationship with a transgender straight woman who has a fully functional penis. She is very "feminine" and quite attractive. Our foreplay involves reciprocity in terms of fellatio and kissing and caressing. Our coitus is always or exclusively her bottoming or taking my cock in her "pussy." I am in a Vanilla, non sexual marriage to a cisgender woman, but I do play with men in the context of my various orgies involving my Latina Latina gurl friend.
     
  19. 19m

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    i hope im not bi also can blood flow of your penis be affected ? because it feels like it has for me
     
  20. Also maybe you don't need to think about your orientation. If you are generally only attracted to women when you're walking about in public, then you're basically straight aren't you?

    Blood flow in the penis? Do you mean PIED? Or maybe a flatline? Both are temporary and will go away by avoiding P (especially) and M
     

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