Grindr, Bumble, or Tinder users??

Yeah I know bro I'm in shape have been told by female friends how I'm good looking and still I chose to reject myself at the time but didn't no porn was affecting my ability to connect with others. Now I'm 28 and realize that I want to be myself unapologetically I was trying to be something I'm not in order to attract the wrong people. I workout for myself now instead of to get attention from women like I was when younger but at the same time I know women appreciate a fit body but there is a lot more to me then that.It use to be frustrating I used to use fitness as a way to mask my insecurities from childhood of not being good enough. However I realize that on a deeper level I have way more to offer than just that and others may perceive me a certain way because of how I look but I realize that doesn't really matter as much as how I perceive myself

 

And that's the only way to do it Brother.
Girls are to men like a protein shake to a bodybuilder; great addition to an otherwise great diet. When you work hard to make yourself absolutely best version of yourself, the money, the fame and the girls will eventually come to you