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Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by deepspaceexplorer, May 21, 2018.

  1. Hi! After 5 years of orbiting around NoFap, and 12 years of PMO, I finally decided to do something about my addiction and made a public commitment to quit.

    In my case, masturbation resulted in premature ejaculation, which makes me so freaking anxious about sex, that I started escaping situations that would have an erotic conclusion.

    The need to be a father is very strong in me. Also, I know I can make a relationship thrive. But I realised that every day with porn pushes the dream away from me. I'm putting an end to it.

    I wish that one day I'll be able to use my story to help someone deal with their addictions.

    Thanks for your support, keep your fingers crossed.
     
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    As a father I can relate. My son is 23 now and we have discussed this site and P in general which we both found at a young age, but his started in the internet age. I'm hoping he will come here too.
    Welcome!!!
     
  3. TheGoldenEra

    TheGoldenEra Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Hey buddy welcome to the threads!!

    Good luck destroying this addiction and bringing it to its knees, I personally overcame P because of my best friend telling me these things "You're watching someone smash a girl YOU find attractive?...that's kinda pathetic" and "Imagine how you'd feel if someone degraded your mother, sister or future wife like that" as well "Even though those actors may not respect themselves, it doesn't mean you should too. Control yourself and be a gentleman" lastly she said "Imagine how your future wife would feel if she knew you looked at other women aside from her like that"
    Since those words came from a woman,it kinda hit hard. I mean Ive not relapsed with P since July 21 2017 that's 300+ days. ;D

    Stay strong!

    Ps any ideas on curing PE? I have it too hehe :p
     
  4. Thanks guys. I remember my parents talking to me about porn, they found out at some point. I wish they were more understanding and less judging. They didn't help just put more shame on me. I don't hold any grudges, but it was a lesson for me - how I DO NOT WANT to talk to my children.

    @TheGoldenEra - exactly my thoughts! I also want to come "clean" into my next relationship and the NoFap PDF convinced me that it's actually EASIER to quit when you're alone, which was counterintuitive for me.

    Unfortunately, I don't have any good advices about PE. I found some sites for self-teaching orgasms without ejaculation (which is supposed to be the next-level experience in sex general, not only a PE-therapy), but they rely on masturbation, so it's a no-no. In my case it's also better when I have a girlfriend. Beginnings are a bit depressing, but in a few weeks my dick goes into a full-time mode and I can last more reasonable time. :) Have you tried contacting a specialist about it?
     
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  5. TheGoldenEra

    TheGoldenEra Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Lol I'm only 18 so he'll no am I telling my parents to take care me to the doctors because I have pe:rolleyes:

    I thought about it. Coming clean with your partner (when you get one) is a must)if she (or he) doesn't like you for it they can simply piss off.

    You keep strong buddy! Have you started a journAl?
     
  6. Well, I get it. Although, for sth completely different, I recently started to clean up my relations with family members. Not that they were bad, but I thought we could give each other MUCH MUCH MORE, if we start talking about hard things (pun intended). It makes your relationship more meaningful. Think about it, it might be better in reality than you think. :)

    Yeah, my journal is here. Do you have one too?
     
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  7. TheGoldenEra

    TheGoldenEra Distinguished Fapstronaut

    My family is mom and dad. Lol no siblings or anything. And its just one of those things, I'm just not telling my parents hehe. If I'm honest, I edged yesterday. I felt guilty for it, but looking back I feel great. My PE is definitely improving. So :p

    Yeah I link my journal to you and check yours out as well ;)
     
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  8. Keeping my fingers crossed for you mate! Your journal is also a source of motivation, keep it up when the exams are over. :)
     
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  9. Hi. Welcome to forum! We all are here to support each other. Wish you lot's of strength and success in your reboot journey!
     
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