"Great Ideas seem to just pop in his head"

kropo82 · Dec 6, 2018

Just been alerted to this great short thread on reddit from a woman whose fiancé is giving up porn.

Here's how she describes the good bits:

goldenera3000 said:

He's more present, he jokes around more, and when we have sex he's way more open (more eye contact, loving, wanting to please me as well). Also he's a lot more playful when it comes to the bedroom which is extremely sexy to me. He likes to build up the tension and make sure our sex isnt just another nut. He gets way more into it when he's "on a streak". He just pays more attention to all aspects of our relationship when he abstains. He also gets on a creative kick. He's a wonderful musician and I don't think he realizes it but he's been stuck for a year or two now but these past four months he's been playing more and more, talking about it more. Great Ideas seem to just pop in his head
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And the bad bits:

goldenera3000 said:

when he's watched porn or relapsed I can always tell because he shuts down. He has this mask of guilt on his face for the next 3 days afterwards and he doesn't want to have sex much at all. Hes tired all the time, disconnected. And this is really the case when we first started dating before he ever thought about abstaining. He was in a very very dark place and would lock himself up in his room.
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And here's her message to us:

goldenera3000 said:

Lady here. Just wanted to say I appreciate what you guys are doing so much. Don't know any of you but god damn you all give me great hope for the generations of men to come. You're doing a great thing for yourselves.
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(All from here)

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"Great Ideas seem to just pop in his head"

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