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Got a girl that I love and would do anything for... Really need support.

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by NateK., Mar 9, 2014.

  1. NateK.

    NateK. Fapstronaut

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    First day of the challenge... I've tried before but since I recently got a girlfriend I really like and would even say love, I need to make a change. What are some immediate benefits? Like first week
     
  2. Cojax

    Cojax Fapstronaut

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    I had some seriouse cravings first week, with days of anxiety, but that will pass and when it does you will feel alot better. I have stayed away from porn for 3 weeks now and some of the benefits I have noticed are
    1: I am feeling better about myself, more confident, better self-esteem, and less social anxiety than before.
    2: I feel more social and like I said less anxiety around people.
    3: I have started to notice I take care of solving problems and making decicions more fast and efficiant now than before, maybe that is a result of me being able to meet my anxiety in a more constructive way than binging in porn like I used to do when ever I got bored or felt some form of stress or anxiety.
    4: sexually I feel more interested in real life women now, and I have felt some small improvements with my porn induced ED problems.

    Good luck with youre nofap journey and with the girl;)
     
  3. NateK.

    NateK. Fapstronaut

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    Thanks :) and best of luck to you as well. How do you begin the challenge on this website though? To where it tracks you digitally, this is my first day on here
     
  4. Cojax

    Cojax Fapstronaut

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    You mean how do you get an automatic counter that keeps track of your days? Just click under my encounter where it says "click here to get your own automatic counter" and then follow the instructions:) If that was what you were asking?
     
  5. NateK.

    NateK. Fapstronaut

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    ... I should read more haha, thanks, and yes, that was it :)
     
  6. freedomwarrior

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    Hi, Nate. First off, welcome. Second off, don't do this for anyone else but YOU. This is for YOU YOU YOU. Others will absolutely benefit as well from your growth and healing, but do it for you.
    Third, how old are you? From the little you have written and shared, you sound young. I say that because you are all excited about doing this for a wonderful girl, and second you have only been into the porn and masturbation for 9 months or so. Congratulations on realizing rather quickly that this addiction tears up people and relationships rather quickly. My guess is you are about 15. Let's see how close I am.
    FW
     

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