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Godly confidence!

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Anonymousbearcat31, Sep 21, 2014.

  1. Anonymousbearcat31

    Anonymousbearcat31 Fapstronaut

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    NoFap is giving me amazing confidence boost. I just hit it off with a girl last night but we were both so wasted that I got her number wrong. But since I grew a pair of gonads thanks to NoFap, I'm going to show up randomly at her house tomorrow morning and ask her over for dinner. Wish me luck guys!
     
  2. leemac93

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    Hahaha sounds like something I would do. xD
     
  3. Anonymousbearcat31

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    Haha it might sound creepy not knowing the whole situation, we've known each other for a few years we just haven't ever had a connection like this. Plus I forgot my backpack at her house when we were drinking last night so its definitely not creepy in my opinion.

    I just feel like she's the type of girl that would appreciate I ask in person instead of online, so that's what I'm going to do
     
  4. Anonymousbearcat31

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    Just an update in case anyones reading this still, she said yes. We're going out when I get off work. Thank you nofap
     
  5. Brooooo you're a total hero for me. If only I had as much courage as you. Jeez it's like a truth shower. I hope you'll have the best time together! That makes me really happy!!
     
  6. Anonymousbearcat31

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    I'd just like to let you all know, especially after Anne-Dauphine's comment; that my date went very well. I picked her up and we went grocery shopping for dinner ingredients, then went back to my house and i made her an amazing pasta (possibly the best i've ever made thanks to a tip from my co-worker) while she chopped all the veggies for the salad. We "watched" a few movies but really spent 6 hours chatting non-stop. I walked her home instead of driving so we could have some extra time together and she loved it. We'll definitely be having more dinners like this again.

    I want to thank all of you on NoFap for making this movement something big enough to catch my attention and make me realize i had an addiction to porn and masturbation. Thanks to you all I have gained much more confidence and self worth, as well as realizing that while i didn't treat women badly at all before, I can, and will treat them much better than I ever have. Thanks guys, my progress here is my victory as well as yours, your inspiring a movement that will help people more than you'll ever know.
     
  7. Anonymousbearcat31

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    Updating here again since this gets more veiws than my journal.

    Thanks to the support of all you fine individuals I have gained the confidence to ask out the girl of my dreams, and I succeeded. Since the dinner night we hang out on a daily basis, even if its just for 10 minutes before work for a blunt sesh.

    You've helped transform me into even more of a gentleman than I was before and I didn't think that was possible. My thoughts and intentions are so pure its incredible, I haven't even looked at another girl the entire time since I asked her out. Thanks guys.
     
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  9. wanttoquit

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  10. That's just crazy!

    Good luck all the way!
     
  11. Anonymousbearcat31

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    Hello again guys! I'd like to thank all of you for your continued support. I'm glad my posts inspired some of you and i hope that they continue to. So here's where I'm at right now:

    Things between that girl and I are still going great. We started running together, and even though I'm much faster than her and a few miles ahead she still enjoys running with me. Shes extremely kind hearted and I've yet to hear a negative word out of her mouth. I feel like seeing someone so positive all the time motivates me to be extremely positive as well.

    Classes just started up this week and they are all going great. I also have run into some awesome girls and have gotten six phone numbers in the past two days. I was also not actively seeking the numbers, all of the girls are very cute and seem pretty intelligent in class. A few of them I approached purely for study buddies, but 2 of them approached me instead. Since I've already got my eyes set on a girl I'm not actively seeking anything but I was amazed to have to beautiful girls walk up to me and start a conversation that ends int "hey can we hang out or study sometime?" and like a champ I gave them my number (instead of asking for theirs, I've found this to be extremely effective) and within minutes I had texts from both of them asking for my schedule so we can find a time to hang out.

    The only thing I've really changed since last school year is the fact that I no longer pmo. I feel like the confidence, will power, fit body, pure intentions toward women (non-sexual intentions [ie "I really want to get to know her" instead of "I want to bang her"]), kindness, happiness, the drive to be a gentleman at all costs, all of these things are a side effect of nofap. Just like many others have said (and which i hope were true but never actually believed) for some reason after you stop pmo for a long period of time, women are immensely attracted to you. Remember those dumb axe commercials where all the girls run through the store and jump on that guy? That guy could be you if you stop pmo'ing, given it will only be one or two girls at a time throwing themselves at you instead of a swarm, it will still happen.

    You are all kind, confident, full of will power, and deserving of good things. The more you work to be kind, happy, content, peaceful, confident, the more you strive to succeed the more good things will come to you. And you deserve them to, each and everyone of you deserve only the best out of life, and you will receive it so long as you try. YOU ARE WORTH IT, believe it.
     
  12. Omfg. Someone get me a girl like yours! Or a boy like you! That is one of the success stories that move me the most, because I can relate so much. Sending you intense positive vibes across the Pacific Ocean! Never stop mec!
     
  13. Finalfight123

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    Not bad dude.Its funny i'm from oregon to and I'm taking classes. I think its pmo and fall like i swear I think fall time is like the best. But much of this is true. Though my number went up a little but girls approach me about the same its just now the numbers go places. Not bad dude. So you a duck fan or beaver fan?
     
  14. Anonymousbearcat31

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    Glad to meet someone from Oregon. I study next to Corvallis but I'm not actually a football fan so I don't have a side! But I totally agree with the fall thing. It always seems that I meet a bunch of girls is the fall and make a lot more connections.
     
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  15. Anonymousbearcat31

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    Another update for all of you:
    A girl walked up to me as soon as I entered the gym Thursday night and asked me to study with her. So I gave her my number thinking really nothing of it. I went to her house to study yesterday morning and for the first time ever, actually had fun studying. Before no pmo, studying was more like "studying" while I try to get into some girls pants. But I had a blast actually studying and taking the quizzes together. I've really started to value high intellegence as a trait I seek in women, instead of just high attractiveness. We actually ended up having a ton in common, and are going to keep studying together. On top of that we're going to swap a few books that we both like for fun. 3 months ago I didn't read, let alone trade books with an extremely intelligent and gorgeous girl.

    No pmo will make your life skyrocket, you just have to find the willpower to stick to it. Never give up fapstronauts, the only thing keeping you from success is yourself.
     
    Last edited: Oct 7, 2014
  16. Anonymousbearcat31

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    Hey there guys!

    Things have been going great. I speak confidently in all my classes, and all of my interactions with others. I always thought socializing with others was easy, but now its beyond easy. I also grasp concepts much more quickly. I started taking sign language last week and even though I knew nothing about it to start with, I can now communicate with deaf students that I've always just waved and nodded to.

    Like I said in an earlier post, I've grown to seek out intelligence in others. Surrounding myself with people on the same page as me is really motivating me to study and stay focused. I rarely drift off in class, and have studied multiple times for each class even though its only week two.

    Oh and something I'm very proud of. Ive always been chubby but since July ive been working out daily and now have 4 of six abs visible, something I'd only ever dremt of. At the end of this month I plan to have a six pack, and as a reward and a promise to myself that I will always stay fit I'm going to get my whole stomach tattooed. That's all I've got for you now, stay strong, and NoFap on guys.
     
  17. Dan-

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    I really get motivated when I read benefits people get from Nofap.
    I'm not really confident and I think that's PMO's fault; on my last streak,
    I felt a lot better and not akward talking to someone (especially girls), I was getting back my confidence.
    I'm happy for you and surely things will get even better.
    Keep going man! :D
     
  18. Asgardian36

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    Wow Bro, you're Journey is Inspiring. I like your attitude! Keep it up! Looking forward to go through your Journal [which acc.. to you gets lesser views than this Thread lol! :) ]
     
  19. Locust360

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    Ya know, when I first started reading this post I found my arrogant side saying "Your 37, what are you gonna get from this kids post." (Not being mean, I recognized it for what it was and ignored it)

    I'm sure glad I kept reading.

    This thread is probably gonna be what kicks me through my day on this journey. Was truly inspiring watching it develop and your enthusiam at the benefits.

    Big Kudos to you and thanks for sharing. You motivated the hell outta me.
     
  20. nopenotdoinit!

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    I have to agree with everyone here. You sound like an awesome person and this girl you found sounds great two. I'm glad two good-willed people were able to connect like that. Reading yours and everyones posts on this thread has certainly strengthened the fire inside me as well. Life is a beautiful thing and we should all follow your footsteps in taking complete advantage of it.
     

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