Goal: Find girlfriend in 2 weeks.(March 2018)

Hi all!

Sorry for my English mistakes, I am from Poland but living in the U.S.

Introduction:

I heard about NoFap in October. After several trials and fails, and had experienced one of the most terrible moment in my life, I decided to end PMO. Since January, it is no more PMO in my life.

I am 20, and I never had a girlfriend! Well, I had a girlfriend when I was 9, but something went wrong since then. When I moved to a new city, I became shy guy, played video games 10 hours per day and did not socialize. In age of 16, I started to work on these issues, and now it is MUCH better than it was. But I still have no girlfriend!

So, I am placing a goal: Find a girlfriend!

In this two weeks, from March 3 to March 17, I am going to find a girlfriend. I post this treat and promise to all NoFap community that I will do it!

What I am going to do:

1. Approach girls. It is by far the hardest part, even though about it makes me anxious. I saw a lot of videos, where guys approached girls on street, in cafe, in library and in other places, but I never did it myself.

2. Get numbers. Suppose I will get courage to approach women, next I need to ask her for number and make it clear that I like her. Again, it is thing that I never done.

3. Ask her for a date. If I completed first 2 points, it is already a huge victory for me. But I need go until the end, so ask her for a date will be necessary to accomplish goal. I don't want to be stuck in the friend zone.

4. Get a girlfriend! Final point. If I do it and write that I have a girlfriend, goal will be completed!

"You know, sometimes all you need is twenty seconds of insane courage. Just literally twenty seconds of just embarrassing bravery. And I promise you, something great will come of it."

It is what I will be doing. Even approach girl will require a lot of courage, so it will be a real challenge. I will report in this treat every day, describing what I did to accomplish goal. Am I tried to approach, am I get a phone number or was rejected? You will know it.

If I am fail, I am going to donate $100 to NoFap, as well as all of you guys will know that I had failed.

I want to find girlfriend very much, so I will put full efforts to accomplish it.

I ask everyone who reading this article to share your experience, about how you approach girls and how you overcome fear.

Wish me luck and vote in poll.

-Polack

 

I have deadline clear deadline, so I will put efforts to achieve it. Otherwise, I tend to procrastinate. I think 2 weeks will be more than enough.

 

It is a great advice. But if I would not meet new people, I cannot be memorable. My goal is to meet new people, particularly girls. In this challenge I will be doing it.

 

Dziękuję!

 

Dziękuję, bracie!

 

Ok guys, I am starting. I will write here every 2-3 days and report progress.

First, I will ask girls in my English class. It is couple of beautiful girls there, and tomorrow, on Tuesday, I will ask one of them if she want to hang out. Also, I will try to approach girls in cafe. It will be more challenging, but I must do it.

Also, I have an idea for March 8. I will write you about it later.

Peace!

 

One week over.

So, on Tuesday I asked girl from my class to hang out. We went on movie, but she has a boyfriend.

On March 8 for the first time in my life, I approached random girl on street. It was very scary at first, but after approach it became easy to talk to her. I got her number, but nothing more. I can't say that I succeeded yet, but approach random girl were my biggest fear. I overcomed it!

I will continue on next week and see what happened.