Here is the thing, Vixen. You asked if I had any thoughts, but all I can think about and is: "why is she still with him?" But I am too cautious a man to lightly vent such a thought. And if I were reckless, obtuse, impertinent, after reading the above I might be tempted to point out that he would have all the power he wants, and all the freedom to pursue shady relationships, after being kicked out of your house and your life for good. But I am not reckless, obtuse, or impertinent, so I will not point out anything.