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Giving up porn

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by soberbaby, Jun 20, 2019.

  1. soberbaby

    soberbaby New Fapstronaut

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    I am a 26 year female and I have been masturbating since I was 11... I have only had orgasms with visual stimulation/porn. I could get off to pretty much anything when I was younger, now I can only get off to BBW... I have always been ashamed by this and kept it a secret until recently. I remember when one of my ex boyfriends went through my internet history and found out and made fun of me. I was so angry and humiliated.

    I have only had relationships with men, and never met a girl I felt sexually attracted to or that I had feelings for. I don't understand why I get off to BBW. I told my most recent boyfriend and he was convinced that I'm a lesbian. Now I am starting to question my own sexuality.

    I just want to believe that if I stop watching porn I will be able to orgasm with real life sex. It makes me depressed that I have only ever orgasmed with porn or fantasizing. I used to be able to fantasize and orgasm during sex but now I have to have porn.
     
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  4. Bombadil

    Bombadil Fapstronaut

    It's not unheard of for people who get badly hooked on porn to find that they are drifting into areas that are more extreme or anxiety inducing, craving a bigger hit. I've certainly come across a bunch of straight guys on here getting worried about their addiction to gay porn (though watching "lesbian" stuff doesn't seem to bother them....o_O) I would suggest that your best bet is to stop the PMO and reboot, and then to have a good long think about orientation when your brain chemistry has had a chance to sort itself out?
     
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  5. Always be positive

    Always be positive Fapstronaut

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    This will help you a lot, watch this and say goodbye to urges forever

    https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/if-youre-struggling.232140/

    But however urges are sometimes attacking even if you are focused on something else, when i got rid of those 1% foods which increases urges and started enjoying 99% other beautiful foods it became so much easyer for me ^_^
     

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