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Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by overthis, Feb 7, 2017.

  1. overthis

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    I'm gonna get this out of the way out of the gate. I am a pretty attractive person, and a lot of girls do come up to me at parties to talk to me, and some times one thing leads to another, but I find sometimes I have a hard time really connecting with someone, or if I do it burns out easily and I feel like a romantic failure because of this. I really just want some one to be with, while sex is cool I'm more interested in finding this connection. Is that because of my pmo addiction? Am I not looking for the right things? Any general advice? I know I'm asking a lot but any input is appriciated :)
     
  2. I would say it does relate to PMO. When I was under daily PMO, I would isolate myself and shield myself from others. I rarely let anyone close to me and I never really felt any personal connection with other people.

    After about 42 days of no PMO on hardmode, I am more responsive to other people's feelings and I feel that I can connect with others on a much deeper level than before. I think part of the reason is when you are on PMO, you feel ashamed at your behaviors (at a subconscious level) and this causes you to detach yourself from others unknowingly. Now that I stopped PMO, I feel like I have no reason to hide myself or isolate myself. In turn, I want to be part of something greater.
     

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