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Girlfriend seeking help

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by apollo98, Jun 24, 2019.

Does it make anybody else’s boyfriend verbally abusive?

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  3. Depends on the senerio

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  1. apollo98

    apollo98 New Fapstronaut

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    my boyfriend and I realized his problem I wanna say 60 days ago. For the most part it’s been a success & im so proud of him. I’ve helped him lock his iPhone & Computer from those websites & he even sold his xbox( the web app ) so that he would have NO access to it. He has then fell into temptation like 10 times.( which in the last 60 days is fucking amazing) we have sex quite often, at least 5 days a week. But I can’t help but take it so personal when he watches porn, the thought of him having a erection because of someone else hurts me a lot. I’ve done my research & I want to help him more but whenever we confesses his relapse.. we argue because I don’t take it lightly. He’s become more verbally aggressive towards me in the last year & at one point we were having sex if I was lucky twice a week. I just feel like there’s more stuff I should be doing for him but I don’t know how to set my feelings aside. I’ve had thoughts of leaving him & I’ve even tried porn myself and hated it. I don’t want to lose him but I don’t want to lose my mind over it either..
     
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  2. He has to want to stop for him.

    No amount of you wanting him to stop will help him stop.

    Focus on you and your selfcare, but be there for him also, support him but do not mother him

    @ccrowegreen is my wife, any words of wisdom?
     
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