Getting women when you dont like club ?

I'll PM you an answer. You'll understand why when you read it.

 

School or work are potential places to meet girls. Another way is to join a religious group and meet someone who has similar values as you do. Besides that try to join some kind of organization (maybe volunteering) and get to meet girls through their.
Also I think the PUA community does talk about hitting on unknown women during the day in coffee shops; that'll definitely be a challenge of confidence.
Keep going strong!

 

I accept private private messaging as well .

If you don't want to club, pick up some hobbies and try to meet girls that way. Like, if you like dogs go to a dog park. Or go for a walk on the trail.

If you are a student go to your college events, or join a club.

At the end of the day, you got to put yourself our there. You might have a local festival to meet girls. But since you need a more frequent approach. I'd definitely pick up a hobby, that's your best bet.

This guy had interesting things on his channel, here's a link to a random video. This information doesn't help you unless you put it to work.

 

Don't listen to PUA, they are sad little children.
Women are humans.

 

There are plenty of PUA's that offer detailed tutorials on daygame and non club venues. I like to go to clubs but its tough to connect for me to connect w women there so in some ways its easier.

I havn't check this one out but his other videos are solid so this should help.

 

The kid asked for advice not some weak ass feminist lecture.
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Here is a link to the Huffington Post. I'm sure youll find an audience for this bullshit here no problem.

 

That was advice.
But whatever, do what you want.
You'll see where it gets you eventually.



My advice would be, if you really really need/want sex right now no strings attached, just try Tinder or whatever.

Or actually go to clubs. Learn to dance, there are plenty of videos online.
Just because something makes you uncomfortable, it's not "worth" doing.

So if this is really what you want, you should be able to move past your comfort zone.



The best way would be a genuine, happy relationship with someone you love, but I guess that kind of stuff isn't welcome here.

 

Obviously you don't want to approach women in rush hour. But pretty much every other place when they are not rushing would probably do. Think of any place where people are either relaxed or having fun, cos that will make them more open and receptive. So maybe on a street in the evening when people are leaving from work, even during mid day when you see a hot girl on a street who is not dressed for business but kinda casually and slowly going some place without rushing. Also public parks where people just chilling and relaxing, beaches, shopping malls, etc. When you see a woman you like just approach her, say "hi" and see if she's interested. Obviously you probably not gonna bring her home a couples of hours later like you could from a club, that's just the nature of day game; it's way slower. But you will get some dates and then move from there. It's harder than club tho for sex purposes cos you need more conversation skills and more confidence in general.

 

Learn to make a friend first then you will understand the similarities

 

You're limiting yourself by only thinking you can meet women at clubs and bars. Think outside the box. I'd suggest start off by understanding your likes. If you like to read for example you can meet women at a book store and will have similar interests. sounds like a good conversation starter asking about a book she is reading instead of "sup, can I buy you a drink?"

The places to meet women are endless you don't need to go to a bar or club to meet them. I'd say focus on improving yourself and pushing past your comfort zone and you'll find women. Don't be afraid to approach them they are people too. If she isn't receptive to you fuck it move on to the next person.

Good luck!

 

Share please... curious about what that answer would be. I don't like clubs and busy places either. I love to go out and socialize with friends but don't go to public places/parties that much

 

Coffee shops... or in between them.

I was just walking down a quiet suburban street, on my way to the coffee shop. A girl comes out of a side street, sees me, and slows down. It's an open invite for me to strike up a conversation, which I do. I ask if there is a Starbuck's nearby. She says she'll show me. we catch a bus together. talk. swap numbers. I say goodbye to her as she goes to meet her friends.

It is as easy as this to meet women. You just have to an open friendly guy. Be yourself!

 

Yep, good tip. I've met a few women like that: I regularly go to a place like Starbucks to study or just read the newspaper or a book. And sometimes a nice girl sits close by and gives the body language that she's into a fun conversation. Some led to a date, but some just like to talk but don't want to continue on it.