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Getting social skills

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by C12345, Jul 15, 2019.

  1. Jul 15, 2019 #1
    C12345

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    Don't mind the day counter, I've been at this for a couple months. Anyway I've noticed insane social improvements. I can make small talk with pretty much anyone if I try. And I can also make eye contact and flirt with girls a little now. I remember before NoFap I was a stuttering idiot by girls, they looked so uninterested when I talked to them. Now I can hold eye contact and they smile and laugh even if I say something stupid. It's pretty great. I'm still fucked up from porn though, I can only imagine how I'll be 6 months- a year from now.
     
    C12345, Jul 15, 2019
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  2. Jul 18, 2019 #2
    Rehab_warrior

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    Hey C12345,

    Even if I expect those kind of improvements, I'm always happy to hear it :)

    Proud of you !

    Stay brave bro
     
    Rehab_warrior, Jul 18, 2019
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  3. Jul 19, 2019 #3
    specter H

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    That's great..stay positive!
     
    specter H, Jul 19, 2019
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  4. Jul 20, 2019 #4
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    Broo teach me how to flirt .
    I wanna give it a try tooo
     
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  5. Jul 20, 2019 #5
    C12345

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    Just keep eye contact and smile. Be enthusiastic around them, it's contagious. And throw compliments in there everyonce in awhile too.
     
    C12345, Jul 20, 2019
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  6. Jul 22, 2019 #6
    T-72 M4

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    Get sober first. Only few days is enough to change your attitude. You'll see significant improvement, just as I've seen few days ago.
    I mean, I was sober about 4 days, then I slipped. After that I stayed sober for next 3 days. 2 porn sessions in a week. It might be strange, but it was enough. Sperm and hormones cummulated inside your body and gave you a dose of self-confidence.

    After few days I'm capable to look into every women's eyes without any shame. It's some kind of challenge I'm sending to her. Look at each other's eyes. Try to treat yourself on equal terms. I don't know if you feel this same as I do, but when I'm after few-day PMO runs I feel ashamed when someone asks me for looking straight into his/her face. I'm glazing at my feet, at objects behind.

    I'm trying not to flirt with girls. We have regular chats and that's enough for me. Most of my friends has someone, so there is no point in involving them in some kind of intimate interactions. Try to be natural and that's all.
     
    T-72 M4, Jul 22, 2019
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