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Getting over Long Term Phimosis

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by thejoyprovider, Jul 22, 2014.

  1. thejoyprovider

    thejoyprovider Fapstronaut

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    I am living amazing moments exploring a new hidden self and sexuality waited long time to be discovered.
    I had phimosis for ever and I realized it now at my 26. Phimosis is when you cant pull back the skin to reveal the head. I actually dont think that for me is a real problem. It was just playing with my thingy the wrong way and getting used to it.
    I remembered in high school we were talking about how to pull it back but I never actually did it. Was afraid of the pain. Also had zero sexual guidance in my life. I experienced everything alone.

    With that being said I can actually say that I am a virgin at 26!
    This sounds crazy but I never actually had intercourse the right way. And the condom always blocked the uncovered (if uncovered at all) head.

    Some girls tried to blow me pulling the skin back but I stopped them because the pain was making my cock shrink. At the same time the porn addiction went on without exposing the head ever.

    So all this is a very unique and very bad for my cock combination.

    Anyway, the last month I started really pulling it down and now it feels more normal. I start gently touching the head and I can feel a whole new world of sensation and calming effects on my whole body. Also I feel my cock gets more hard that way.

    Also I feel more man. I produce more sounds. I am...just different. And I love it.

    I am on a good way but I would like to ask. When the pain or better unconfort will totally go away? Will I be able to enjoy normal real sex? Any good exercises?

    Also. Do you guys can have the dickhead exposed in your underwear or you feel discomfort? If I do it feels very weird

    Thanks.

    PS: Sorry penis.
     
  2. IWantABetterLife22

    IWantABetterLife22 NoFap Moderator

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    I am 22, not a virgin, and I have phimosis. I've heard a good exercise is to give yourself an erection, wrap your penis in a warm towel, leave it there for 5 or so minutes, take it off, and lightly pull your skin forward and backward. However, this makes some people want to fap, and you definitely shouldn't do it if it makes you relapse. I was suggested to get a steroid cream from a doctor, but I never use it because, like you, it's not a problem for me. If you live your entire life uncircumcised, then the head of your penis will forever be sensitive. I once read about an experiment a guy did with his uncircumcised (but no phimosis) friend. He told his friend to pull back his foreskin and walk around. 5 minutes later, his friend stopped because he couldn't take the chafing anymore.

    All that being said, sex with my girlfriend is normal. We don't use condoms but she is on birth control. She doesn't pull back my foreskin because she understands that it is painful for me after a point. I don't know what to tell you about the condom thing.
     

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