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Getting Laid Journal

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Son_of_Iroquois, Jan 8, 2017.

  1. Enki

    Enki Fapstronaut

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    These are the times I wish there was a "save post" option on this website. Yeah, you're describing EXACTLY the spot where I'm at right now. I've spend years just focusing on self-improvement and I've felt that there is still a void I want to fill - true deep connection with other people. I tried going out, I had A LOT OF FUN going out, talking to people, meeting people, and forming new friendships. I felt like I was LIVING ON THE EDGE; I was living the motto "always push a little bit past your comfort zone EVERY SINGLE DAY." I loved it, and I lived that lifestyle for about two months last year. But then, I realized I was starting to fall behind a bit on my other, less social goals in my life so I started focusing on them... for probably a bit too long.

    I've spent the past month on my nofap journey working to automate my self-improvement goals so that I would automatically do them, and it would free my mind to let me start socializing more. It's working :) I'm in the transition phase right now. And I'm slowly going out to socialize more and more again. It's not at the level I was at before, when I went out and pushed to do one thing that scared me every day, but I'm getting there.

    Thanks for the posts @Audere est Facere and @Son_of_Iroquois . I can really relate. I love the fact that people here have gone through this exact same thing and are willing to give feedback and advice. I respect you two.
     
  2. It's nice seeing your change of attitude @Son_of_Iroquois. I have a feeling you'll meet someone special soon :)
    Keep at it and best of luck
     
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