Gay or bi?

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by Kokoos, Sep 16, 2018.

  1. Kokoos

    Kokoos Fapstronaut

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    Im 31 years virgin,

    I like boys n watch alot of gay porn, but when i see a hot girl i cant stop stare, btw tryed to watch straigth porn but cannot get hard! i have have been in love with girls, had crushes etc. so should i accept it and continue fapping, or should i do nofap and evaluate=?`?
     
  2. GaryMayor

    GaryMayor Fapstronaut

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    Rethink it after full 90 day reboot.
     
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  3. ivanhoe

    ivanhoe Fapstronaut

    evaluate with a reboot and make sure you include eliminating fantasizing/edging.

    Porn can warp your base sexual tastes...
    https://yourbrainonporn.com/are-sexual-tastes-immutable
     
  4. tryinghardmode23

    tryinghardmode23 Fapstronaut

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    Take a PMO reboot and you will see what is the best for you.
    You will find your way then, I'm shure.
     
  5. Salada

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    Hi bro. I don't think the type of porn you watch is the same as your real life orientation and it doesn't need to be the same as what sex you do in real life either. Too many people who don't have real sex are deciding their orientation before they had real sex or before they fall in love with a girl, build a bond with her, get nervous around her and have their kiss with her and grow into a long term.relationship with her including sex . You are not giving a proper boy-girl relationship a chance!

    It sounds like you are just letting porn dictate your orientation and leaving your head in a fog of erotic images. The reason you may like gay porn sex is because it is taboo or new or strange or because you don't feel you belong as a male. If that is the case, when you get bored of that sex, you could possibly go down the rabbit hole maze of bdsm, scat and who knows what else, because they are more taboo and weird.

    Give a real date with a girl a chance to thrive without feeding a gay addiction and reinforcing that addiction with pmo. This is a self fulfilling prophecy, every day you train your brain to love the gross images you see on screen will be another day closer to deceiving yourself that you are 100% gay.
     
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  6. Kokoos

    Kokoos Fapstronaut

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    Maybe ur rigth ör i should accept it
     
  7. Salada

    Salada Fapstronaut

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    Well at least accept it without your porn lenses on.
     
  8. Kokoos

    Kokoos Fapstronaut

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    Have you heard about anybody thougth he was gay and after NoFap he realised he was bi or straigth
     
  9. hardowner

    hardowner Fapstronaut

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    Yes, there are some members here.
     
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  10. Salada

    Salada Fapstronaut

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    I'm only gay online but I'm in an exclusive female relationship at home.
     
  11. Salada

    Salada Fapstronaut

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    But I'm doing my best to keep off everything gay online.
     
  12. tiredofit1`

    tiredofit1` Fapstronaut

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    I going through the same thing.
     

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