From porn..to 3soms..to watching...to PIED

I read an article recently that almost mirrored my transition to full PIED. I want to show it to the wife to help explain what my journey has been...but i cant find it again.
Basically it started out with me spending too much time chatting with guys about my wife sharing fantasies. During that time our sex life nosedived..i was getting all my PMO from the chat. Then i shared my addiction with the wife. She agreed to have others join us. Initially my erections were more powerful than ever. But after initially having 3soms i found myself being more withdrawn from the act..instead my O was from just watching..then chatting to others about what happened. After a year i needed to use pills just to get hard watching!
She stopped..but i still got my PMO fix by chatting to others about it and sharing pics...but id started needed the pills just for my PMO fix. It was then i realised i was in trouble. And that's why im so glad i found this site. Still clear after 5 weeks

Can i find that article anywhere...have you read it..can you send me the link?

 

I dont know is the answer. With no PM and no contact as i go through reboot i couldn't tell you. But towards end even the pills were barely working. Its such a downward spiral once you get on it