Friends With Benefits?

FindingAName, don't waste your energy hating innocent people who you don't even know. Work on yourself. If you pay attention to other people's life, at least do it to learn something, not to hate them. Ask them how they did it.

Peace.

 

Stop treating s*x like a god. That's exactly what got you in trouble. If you can't control your sexual urges then, why would a woman want to be with you in a relationship. Those are some horrible things that you wrote and as the other person wrote, you don't know the other people, stop judging them. I put some of the blame on media for how you are and some adults. Adults in some cases especially men have influenced the millennial male generation into thinking that they are a loser if they're a virgin in their teens, which is not true and also sexual content is overplayed in the media. Don't allow their thinking to influence you. Life is about more than s*x, it's unfortunate that guys your age don't get that. Stop following everyone else. Hedonism only leads to dissatisfaction.

 

Depends of your personality, but in my opinion, friends with benefits is a bad thing, i tried it with 2 girls who were my friends, and i'm no longer friend with these 2 girls, i'm looking up for some serious relationship not based only on SEX because otherwise you always finish by objectify girls and subsequently being a real friend with them become difficult, well these are my conclusions on the question.

 

Friends with benefits, usually , Never ends well .

To each his own though .