For those claiming to be Asexual

The definition of asexual is "without sexual feelings or associations." I recently have found asexuality to be fascinating. I don't know if somebody can truly be asexual, sexual feelings is a physical part of being human.

For those on Nofap that are "asexual", how? If you had a problem with PMO then you are not asexual bc you had sexual feelings, even to the point where it became an addiction. You were addicted to something bc you literally had sexual feelings. I don't think you can just turn around and say, yeah im asexual now. Isn't it the same thing as being homosexuality, youre born w it and its not a choice? A good amount of people on here claim to be asexual, and thats fine if you dislike sex but PMO is bc of sexual feelings that you had.

 

Being an asexual is not at all like being homosexual. Asexual men aren't, and dont, get disgusted by the sight of:

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Naked women, their breasts, nipples, ass, hips, curves, back, or vagina.

Being an asexual is basically not being interested in sex. Asexuals can have sex, but they wouldn't experience sexual attraction to anything. For example, aegosexual can experience arousal from people of the opposite gender, but have no interest in having sex with ANYBODY. Asexuals are identified better by their romantic attraction (who they can fall in love with). For example, heteroromantic asexuals can fall in love with people of the opposite gender, biromantic asexuals can fall in love with people of both genders, homoromantic asexuals can fall in love with someone of the same gender, and panromantic asexuals can fall in love with anyone of any gender and sexuality. Some asexuals are cool with kissing, some aren't. Some would rather cuddle.

 

okay well i related it to homosexuality only bc (i think) youre born w it. And i was saying if a person claims to be asexual and had a PMO problem then how can they be asexual? Not trying to question people's sexualities or nothing but logically speaking, they experienced sexual attraction

 

Asexuals can get addicted to porn and stuff, but that doesn't mean they experience sexual attraction. Sexual attraction means that you wanna have sex. At one point, I thought I was an aeogosexual at one point. But I'm sex neutral. I'd only do it to make babies, and ONLY to make babies.