for some people, masturbation might be a bigger problem than porn

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Deleted Account, Dec 2, 2018.

  1. Mordobarn

    Mordobarn Fapstronaut

    Unfortunately, it is bad in itself. There are several threads where people have decided to go no-MO but still look at porn. They all fail. There is a reason why that happens. So, it's good that you've decided to go hard reboot.
     
  2. u376

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    I tend to disagree, because I did not come from an addiction myself. The reason I have resetted was, that I wanted to and I also did this without any porn/cams.
    I do not see much sense in doing "hard mode" generally for itself, if one has arrived already beyond the reboot phase. This permanent prolonged "abstinence" for itself too often lacks purpose and reason to me. It´s an individual question and for myself, I can say that I feel better doing hard mode again now, but that might change over the time. I think it´s important, to set a goal for yourself and lay out the rules, but then also to keep those.
     

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