Foot Feitsh, Just feel like Sharing

I haven't stopped fapping for a whole year, and don't have the answer to your question, but I do have a story somewhat similar to yours that I would like to share. I remember probably a week before I became I member on this site, I saw those type of videos, and I am very sad to admit that... yes, I did fap to it. However, good did come out of that experience, because that was my inspiration for starting. Since once I looked back at what I was watching with a clear mind, I felt disgusted with myself and tried to fix what I had become immediately (which is NoFap).
Thanks for reading, and have a good day

 

I had a foot fetish, nothing extreme but it was more the open toe black strapy heels which I still love today. But dude, it's objectifying, we need to see her for who she is, not her dam feet and heels as sexual objects.We need to make an effort not to look and not to masturbate to feet and heels (me) because we are creating wiring in our brain that this is the prize and it will continue for life. It's actually pretty fucked up if you think about it.

 

Maybie its something in the past yis say in age 4
Must be reason, i been reading in the internt about it, chek it out

 

Hey mate. I hope you are doing OK. This is gonna be a long read but I would like to answer your question the best way I can. Hope you read it thoroughly.
Well first of all congratulations for your courage to share your story with us. I am sure a lot of people here can relate to what you said to some extend(because honestly I DID relate as I explain below).
Some people come here and their problem is premature ejaculation(means ejaculating too fast) which happens because most guys try to ejaculate to porn as fast as possible so they won't get caught. Others can't ejaculate while having sex because they've had long sessions of PMO and now their body needs more extreme measures and more time to ejaculate. Others go even farther and they start watching gay porn, or some weird kinds of porn which I don't want to get into(as it may be a trigger for readers of this post). We have different kinds of problems but one thing is common. Our brain gets used to what we feed it. No matter if it's fetish porn, gay porn whatever it is... if we keep watching that for a period of time our brain absorbs it and believe it to be true for us. And guess what it BECOMES true for us too. First we fool our brain and then our brain fools us. So don't get fooled by your brain. You can cure your addiction because thousands of us have.
I can relate to your story. I had foot fetish and gay porn addiction. But now after almost 6 months rebooting and having quite a few relapses I feel much better. feet don't trigger me. Don't be mistaken. I see people's feet but honestly I don't pay attention to them anymore. It's just like any other body part to me. Is my fetish still there? Of course! It's always gonna be there. Because no matter what you do, the neural pathway of that addiction won't disappear no matter how narrow it gets. But with enough time and effort my addiction and neural pathway of it, both have become really weak. If I could make it, then you can too.
With that being said, leaving an addiction is not only possible by abstaining. It's not your body that is addicted it's your subconscious. So you need to change your life style in order to succeed. It's not gonna be easy, but trust me brother it is worth it 100%. There are lots of way to do this. Keeping a daily journal, getting cold showers when you feel urges, changing the sleep schedule. Please, please never ever don't go to bed after 11 or 11;30ish. Going to bed late is one of the most dangerous triggers for any PMO addict. So make sure you go to bed early.
Meditation is one of the best tools you can use to affect your subconscious and achieve more self-awareness. There are lots of guides on Youtube which you can use.
Getting better is absolutely possible mate. It just needs time. So be patient and strong.
Good Luck.