Hi, Let me begin by saying I welcome all advice on this topic.. Don't hold back. We're married for 7yrs, 1 daughter aged almost 5. Our sex life is was difficult from the outset. I had partners prior to marriage, she-none. Sex between us was difficult from the beginning due to a size issue which was painful for her... I found this off putting and gave up quickly, losing erections regularly. On occasion,resorting to fapping, which was by no means regular. As it stands today, my libido is flat,I have no spontaneous desire for sex and our rows are intensifying. Had stopped fapping a long time ago, but officially started a reboot in January. Today 6 months onward to today and no change still ! Is there light at the end of the tunnel?