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Flatline on Day 13 - Loneliness and Temptation

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by DejaVu14, Apr 10, 2018.

  1. DejaVu14

    DejaVu14 Fapstronaut

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    Title says it all.

    I've been feeling for the last two days like I've been absolutely lonely. Not to mention the temptation to relapse that comes along with it. It feels as if I took a shot of espresso on the days of flatlining. Not to sound depressing but that's how it honestly felt on Day 1 of my reboot.

    Furthermore, I realize I have no accountability buddy. Searching for one and if you need one, let's become partners!
     
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  2. Escapefromhell666

    Escapefromhell666 New Fapstronaut

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    You are never really alone! Hopefully NoFap will help you gain a little confidence in yourself to make friends out side of here.
     
  3. thelasttruthtold

    thelasttruthtold Fapstronaut

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    Keep your head up buddy- stride on: keep clearing them dark clouds
     
  4. Sleepyhead420

    Sleepyhead420 Fapstronaut

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    I watched porn today afera 10 days of abstaining, and couldn't resist fapping. I am gonna try again and this time avoid P altogether.
    What is accountability buddy, I am up for it, tell me what I have to do, I am not gonna quit, let's partner up.
     
  5. Hey man,

    I was the same, when you get private time on your own it's very tempting to look at porn. I think using this site might fill a bit of the gap to an extent, to come on here for company and help.

    I haven't cum in 13 days also so we are at the same stage, I'd be happy to partner if you want.

    Thanks

    Ryan
     
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  6. Hatfuge

    Hatfuge Fapstronaut

    What I do when I get urges is to just get away from my computer or phone, that way I can't get to porn and I just have to wait for the urges to stop, it works very good for me.

    After joining this site I've felt waaay more accountable to keep going, if I relapse I will let everyone down. I need to keep going so all of you can see that it's possible.

    Try to do it for a higher purpose like inspiring more poeple to get a grip of their lives.

    I think you can do it. We all can ;)
     
  7. DejaVu14

    DejaVu14 Fapstronaut

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    Sure, let's partner up then. Definitely in need of an accountability buddy.
     
  8. Creation_of_life

    Creation_of_life Fapstronaut

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    Getting clean ain't easy, but we all can do it. I used to feel lonely. If the urge got too big, I just took a cold shower, didn't cure my loneliness but at least I didn't relapse. The urges got less after a month for me, however my loneliness got bigger, but in time that became less too. However everyone reacts different. Your brain is trying it's best to make you PMO, the rewiring takes time.
     

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