Fitness, Sexual Frustration & Same Sex Attraction

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by GymRat07, Jun 5, 2018.

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  1. XManGambitStorm

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    I don't think NoFap changes one's sexuality.
     
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  2. Ageen

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    That was actually my point.
     
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  3. wellbriety1

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    This is a very important topic (SSA)... From my experience as a formerly active gay man who has experienced unwanted SSA (same-sex-attraction) my entire life and didn't "come out" until I was 30 (I'm 40 now). I have a lot of issues with the addiction and substance abuse in the gay-lifestyle that I was living. It ultimately brought me to rock-bottom and recovering from both sex addiction and alcoholism/drugs. Today, I see the difference between "gay" and "SSA" as exactly that... one is self-proclaim when a man chooses to come-out as "gay" and the other is the unwanted SSA and unresolved desire and lust for other men, whether or not your straight, gay, married, bi, trans, etc. If you have SSA it means it's anyone on that list who does not want the same-sex-attraction. I need to start addressing my own unwanted SSA by first, NoFap, having an AP who understands SSA, and tackling the gay-porn addiction and gay-sex addiction.
     
  4. I don’t know that I understand SSA but I do and did know I never wanted a loving relationship with a man. I sure did and guess still do urn for their beautiful strong bodies and large Ds. It’s almost like an idolatry for me.
     
  5. You still looking for an AP? I need someone to talk about this process. I think I’m flatlining and it’s driving me nuts. For most of my adult life half of my identity was my D. Are you willing to open a conversation?
     
  6. Dadncharge50

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    Hey man. Great to see you in here. I have unwanted SSA too. Gay porn and we canning is my drug of choice.

    There have been lots of recent Catholic materials produced that have helped me rethink my identity. Happy to share them if you are interested.

    Be well.
     
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  7. Yes please share. Gay porn/ dick pics/sexual talking on what’s app is mine.
     
  8. Dadncharge50

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    Desire of the Everlasting Hills movie and The Third Way. Google them.

    Courage is another Catholic source.
     
  9. JasonB1984

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    Hey man, we're looking for the same things. I'm only at the start of my journey (Day 5 and counting) but I'd love to have a buddy to share experiences with. Hit me up any time brother
     
  10. JRex

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    Fuck, you are the mirror of me.
     
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  11. I'm down with being anyones AP, just hit me up.
     
  12. EL88

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    Would love to hear more, Dad!
     
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  13. Dadncharge50

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    Sure. What do you want to know?
     
  14. EL88

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    What materials have you got there?
     
  15. Dadncharge50

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    Google Desire if the Everlasting Hills and The Third Way movies. Courage is an organization for persons with unwanted same sex attraction.

    Best to you.
     
  16. desiman

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    Same here, married. Ping me
     
  17. Hey so I know this post has gotten of response but is anyone still in need of an AP?
     
  18. Spartan91

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    I think you're just bisexual .No amount of fitness will change that. Accept yourself man.
     
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  19. SSA has been a lifelong struggle. I've accepted it for what it is.
     
  20. EL88

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    And what is it?
     

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