first sex after 3 days reboot ,Embarrassing

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by bendknee, Apr 6, 2019.

  1. bendknee

    bendknee Fapstronaut

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    Well i had sex for the first time into the reboot like 2 days ago , and it was very embarrassing i couldn't maintain an erection and it took me a hand job after 20 minutes of weird fucking time where i keep getting soft than with a quick hand job go back hard again , it was so weird because when i think about her i get hard but when i am with her my penis is just like not interested bro , give me a hand job .

    i know i am just 3 days into the reboot and i was masturbating every chance i got like 2 times a day every day .

    now i am always tired depressed and anxious all the time and worried about the next time i am gonna have sex .

    i really hope i can get back to normal
     
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  2. CH3RRY

    CH3RRY Fapstronaut

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    You will, but it takes time.
     
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    Take a deep breath and don't get painic. You will be alright after few days.
     
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  4. bfdet

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    Hi Bend !

    First thing - relax. You are going to be fine. 3 days is probably not long enough to have experienced much, if any, difference in performance. This takes some time, but it does work, so keep going ! Remember, it took you some time to get to where you are today, so it will take some time to undo the problems PMO created. It may be helpful to consider a 30 day or longer reset. Also, can you get your SO involved in your healing ? Having a supportive partner that understands the challenges you are facing can be a great help in getting well.

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     
  5. bendknee

    bendknee Fapstronaut

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    Thanks bfdet i am trying to reset but it is not easy i get turned on very easy i am trying my best to not get hard but no matter what it happens from time to time and every time i am near a laptop or on my phone i get an itch to see a naked girl so that my brain can start fantasizing , and i think that is not allowed during a hard mode reboot
     
  6. bfdet

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    Hi 'bend.

    Its good that you recognize that when you get excited, and are near a device, you are tempted to go searching for images. Your right, its NOT what you should be doing in hard mode. So ... what's the answer ? There may be several.

    Consider installing site blockers on your phone, tablet, and computers. (there are probably lots of folks on this site that can offer suggestions; I'm not overly computer savvy.)

    If you can't install blockers, or even if you can, consider only using your electronic devices in public areas where PMO is simply NOT possible.

    Its also important to learn that we don't always have to M or O every time we may become physically aroused. NOT acting on an arousal really won't kill us - in spite of what we may sometimes think or feel !

    Stay strong. You can do this.

    One day at a time is how we all succeed.
     
  7. bfdet

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    hi 'bend

    Just checking in. You OK ?

    one day at a time is how we all succeed.
     

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