First NoFap Love Story?

I've gone through a lot to end up with @Star Lord and will not be repeating it all. I joined NoFap in January and I'd say we became serious friends in March. I admitted I had feelings for him basically right before spring break, yeah babe?
We've been on-off again due to our LDR (He's in the U.K. and I'm in America) but there is no denying that what we have is real. He's a new believer so believing that God will see us through is still a challenge for him...even now I have my doubts. We don't know what will happen in the end but we hope for the best. The distance is really getting to me now. Sexting is one of my weaknesses and I've definitely been the initiator of it. I have to stop that now. Having several of my IRL Christian friends pray for us. Prayers from you guys appreciated.

How to prevent relapsing (online LDR edition)

• Be romantic - every compliment, shared love song, appreciation, NoFap PDA is what made our transition from friends to a couple absolute bliss. And made us lose a lot of sleep! 8 hour time difference
• Proceed with caution -- I already knew I would use sexting as a p-sub but it wasn't a problem until we became "official." Phone sex is even higher when it comes to the pleasure I get from it. We do talk on the phone now but I was deliberate in not rushing into it. We stated out with sending short audio clips.
• No pictures. We are aware of what each other looks like because of AFK thread. Headshots only.

I'll add more as it comes to me. Love you baby!

 

Hi, I actually wrote about this--

To answer your questions, no it is not selfish to want your partner to think of you during sex. 1-2 months without PMO is not that bad. Remember he survived virginity-- maybe it's time he remembered that inner strength. Keep pushing for that shared MO, it will help! If you have more specific questions you can always PM as well

Thank you! And yeah! First relationship on both of our sides so being able to post here at all is still a little crazy for me.

 

Accountability Partners
Are mandatory. Not negotiable. If you follow a religion, your APs need to be of that faith. We keep each other accountable but we are not official APs.
Remember that you are only responsible for your reboot.
We have different approaches to NoFap. I can suggest, but not force. He's very open to my suggestions though (which I love :*) which makes my life easier!

 

Nyc congratz.
While scrolling down I looked for @StarLord 's post but didn't found any of them. (Reason :-Because the ways of expression and decision making varies with gender. And ofc i m male). Anyways i feel the girls like sexting. Its not just you .

 

Thank you! And yeah, definitely not just me!

 

As you know, Star Lord and I are in a relationship. It was unplanned but it has made us very happy. As a Christian, I made it clear that I was only going to date to marry.

This is what it is sounds like. It is the opposite of casual dating, it is learning if the person you are talking to could be your future spouse. Star Lord and I want the same things in life and so will be moving forward to meeting IRL to make a final decision. When you date to marry you go over the big thing -- finances, kids, aspirations...
I only had one deal breaker which lead to our first break up: No sex before marriage. Our society paints sex like a cheap object but it's not. It's a beautiful, sacred thing meant to be shared between man and wife. It's just a small taste of the ecstasy of God's love for us. Star Lord now understands the importance of waiting.

The 2nd deal breaker for me, which just happened to coincide with my muting was Star Lord's refusal to seek Christian fellowship. But after talking, I've realized that until SL forgives God for his porn addiction, he won't trust or depend on God when things get hard.

My fellow Christians, you already know the Bible. Why aren't you forgiving yourself? Why aren't you giving thanks or praying? You need to put God first. It's time to heal.
Seriously, join my Whatsapp Bible study group. Message me for my #

 

Shouldn't be until he asks God for forgiveness?

 

ideally. But he needs to understand suffering first

 

@Star Lord watch my favorite movie already

(500 Days of Summer)

 

Time to come clean!!!
Okay "Mr. Nice Guy" @Star Lord, I'm getting real sick of people not knowing that you...


made me a better person <3 :3

That's right fools this is an appreciation post! Suckers! I showed you!

#jalopeñoinourbusines
#celebrateourlove #gross #NoFappowercouple #likeBey&Jay #slay #yaaas #internetqueen.

Dedicated to @Livelihood & @TemporarySam because y'all still don't know jack!!! Suck it.

*clears throat*

Okay so *good* things about dating another fapstronaut (disclaimer -- I am NOT endorsing this to become a hookup site. Definitely gets in the way of the reboot)

1. You both f*** up. SL definitely more messed up than I am and should be in therapy. We all should. But at the same time this has helped us talk about anything under the sun. And talk about all the naughty things we want to do to each other (in marriage). Muy calliente. No secrets

2. You care about your appearance. Unintentionally I lost 8 lbs. What became intentional is keeping the weight off -- even though he is 4000+ miles away, we will meet one day and your girl wanna look goooood. So I take the stairs now. I don't crave chips or sweets anymore. :') the dummy is making me healthy without even trying. One downside is I eat sugar when I feel low about us D:

3. We appreciate the little things. Y'all having relationship problems? Bish please. I can't even hold this guy's hand until who knows. PRAYERS. TT.TT

3. SO MUCH NEW MUSIC
I also have seen a lot more movies too. It's fun to share my recs -- except I DON'T THINK HE'S WATCHED ANY
*flips table in anger* D:<

I miss any babe? Those are the biggies. So yea, haters and doubters this relationship HAS been good for both of us. We just dealing with a lot of sh**
which makes sense, 'cause we're here. Duuuuuuuuuuh.

Dueces.

 

p.s. Guardians of the Galaxy Vol 2, out May 5th!



Star Lord has love for me! Sexual love! *bowchickawowwow*

 

ALSO I NEED TO MAKE $645.
I WILL PROOFREAD/COMMENT ON YOUR ESSAYS. HMU

 

Ha, one more song. SL was Mr. Steal Yo Girl. A lot of y'all liked me. Only need one sugar daddy tho :')

Shoo he ain't even a playaaaa. He's a nerd. A nerd with a hella sexy voice <333 *sex nerd high five*

ALSO I HATE THE WORD NIGGA. S/o to @tweeby for calling me that in a PM. Still salty about that.