I'm 50 and have struggle with my porn addiction for most of my life! My wife and I have been married of over 20 years and have been together for close to 24 years! My wife has always known I did it and in some cases enabled it cause she felt it was a way to be closer to me and it would make are relationship better and over the years we fought about it while I struggled and ignored it and she put up with it in the Hope's I would quit! About a month ago it came down to a big fight about it and she told me she just cant put up with it anymore! So I decided I needed to do some big changes! Cause losing her to this is not an option! So far she has been very supportive in Hope's that this change works, I have been PM free for over three weeks now and trying to make my self better!