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First attempt, how to get through 1st week?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by MadmanWithAFez, Aug 18, 2017.

  1. MadmanWithAFez

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    The last time I had an orgasm was Sunday. I kinda decided then that I needed to stop, that I'd become way more dependent on PMO than I wanted.

    So I joined nofap. I've been going good for the past 4 days, but I've been busy and had distractions. It's only been whilst I'm in bed that I've really had urges, I still have fantasies and images going through my head and I can only just force myself not to just give in and masturbate. Today I'm home all day and the urges are strong, I fear too strong to overcome with willpower alone. I really don't want to fall at the first hurdle, especially since this is my first attempt at going cold turkey. Plus I only need to get through today then I'm busy for another week or so.

    So basically what I'm asking is, what can I do, firstly today to distract myself enough not to give up, and secondly to manage myself when I'm in bed at night and in the morning.

    Thanks!
    -A madman with a fez
     
  2. Anonymous101_

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    Go outside. Hangout with friends. Watch a movie. Whatever you do, don't watch any porn or porn subs.
     
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  3. MadmanWithAFez

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    Thanks! I really should have thought of this, Its the sort of stuff I should be doing anyway, I just tend to be too preoccupied with PMO or being lazy. I'll find some stuff to do i'm sure.
     
  4. PicNick

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    Keep yourself busy through the day with constructive work, thoughts, hobbies, exercise, which should also tire you enough to get you to sleep when you hit the bed. Avoid hitting the bed till you are really really sleepy. Avoid any triggers of PMO. Stay positive.
     
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  5. MadmanWithAFez

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    Thanks, I'll do that!
     
  6. MarinoBigFan1984

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    You have to learn how to be still while having urges. You can't constant distract yourself 24/7. I know sometimes the urges and feelings get overwhelming but it's part of the process.
     
  7. Two words... Cold Showers!
     
  8. MadmanWithAFez

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    I guess you're right, if I distract myself with something to avoid PMO then I might just end up addicted to that. Still, I feel like If I hadn't watched a film and binged on TV today then I might have relapsed. I suppose it is, as you say, part of the process.

    Umm...okay, that sounds like something that people would do, but a little explanation?
     
  9. BlueDragonfly

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    You're doing great all ready. Only two more days until you hit a week! Do things that take time and an amount of effort, that way you are engaged and less likely to get bored. Stay off of the internet. Do a damn good job mowing your lawn, vacuuming your floor, making your bed, organizing your clothes, cleaning your bathroom. Do 50 pushups. Run a mile. Blend up some vegetables in your fridge and drink it. Cook a good omelet with different spices. Learn how to tie different knots, master an origami design, learn to do a back flip, play with your pet, go fishing, pick out an outfit for tomorrow...
     
  10. PicNick

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    Cold showers:
    • arrest the blood flow reducing erections.
    • being quick, help you stay in the bath less, thereby reducing M possibilities.
    • make you run/ exercise to counter the cold, thereby increasing the energy levels.
     
  11. Runtilmylegsdropoff

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  12. MadmanWithAFez

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    Ahh thanks, I knew people did stuff like that I just never knew the exact benefits. Very helpful, I shall have to try!

    Of course, I've done this sometimes on holiday, I just get real pent up and spend hours jerking when I get home and feel disgusting after. I also did this once when I'd arranged to meet up with my then gf, we planned to kinda get things on so I edged like every day for a week beforehand thinking it would help me in some way. It did not.
     
  13. BlueDragonfly

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    Also cold showers increase your immunity to sickness by raising your white blood cell count, they make it easier to fall asleep by lowering your body temperature, they wake you up, you make brown fat and burn white fat, you become tougher, you don't stay in the shower as long, it doesn't dry out your skin or hair...
     
  14. MadmanWithAFez

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    Wow sweet, I had no idea that they did all this stuff, I need to do this every time from now on!
     
  15. BlueDragonfly

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    Congratulations on one week! Now go for two, or if that's too hard, try to get to ten days, which is 1/3 of the 30 day challenge.
     
  16. MadmanWithAFez

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    Thanks! 1 week isn't too big of an achievement, but it's an achievement nonetheless, and I guess I should be sort of proud. I will try for at least another week, the first week hasn't been too terrible, hopefully it won't get too much harder. Maybe I can go for the 30 day challenge....
     

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