Finally going to visit an escort

I would feel guilty for engaging in such an activity in the first place, so I would never even consider doing such a thing in the first place.

 

BetatoAlpha it sounds like you are really, really lost, and really entitled. You need to realize you can take control of your life and make changes if you want to. You keep looking to other things to validate you. You started this thread saying that astrology made sense, that a prostitute would solve your problems, then you said God made you get a prostitute. None of that makes any sense. You make your own choices, and you control what you do. If you want to change, you have to change, no one is going to do it for you. You may have hormone imbalances, I know that can happen, but there are medications and doctors that can help you with that. Just try to focus on yourself, what you want to change, and how you can make that happen, and then get to work. Don't seek validation in things that are so worthless.

 

You don't need sex, you need quality attention and intimacy from someone who cares about you. Paying a woman to emotionlessly lie there while you use her body is pretty much the exact opposite of that, and is only going to frustrate your need even more. If you're that desperate to vent, I would reset. An escort is infinitely worse than masturbating. I know this because I've been to them.

 

And when that option is unavailable to someone? Should one resign oneself to the lack of human touch?

 

It's your journey, brother. I just wanted to warn you that your best case scenario is disappointment, but the worst is that you find it satisfying and become a regular. Either way, or maybe somewhere inbetween the two, your true need goes unmet.

 

Go out there and start learning about hitting on women. We all start somewhere, man.

 

I thought about it and if men are seeking woman for sex by paying them, and women selling their bodies for sex, well what does that say about them? Something is wrong with this picture no? Find a woman and exchange real value on equal terms because this escort thing is down right low in my book.

 

Well maybe they just dont feel like share that with you.

Btw did you know that just in London area itself there is over 4400 girls doing private escort and that is not even counting massage parlours?

If there were no such demand there would not be such large number of girls offering sex.

 

I dont think prostitutes do that by choice. It's not as glamorous as in movies like Pretty Woman. I've read stories about prostitutes where they say how they were forced into this profession from childhood.
I've also watched a show on discovery or nat geo where prostitutes said their pimps have kept them hostage and the pimps know where the prostitute's family is so she can't escape.

I know my knowledge is restricted and there may some some people who enjoy being in that profession. my cousin visited an escort once and he asked the hooker about it and she said she gets good money like this.

one reason why i wont visit a hooker is cause it's scary. i've read enough of blackmail stories and heard of mafia associated with hookers to be a part of that world.

this is one reason i want to avoid porn. i think i'm supporting the flesh trade industry.

 

You know very little, one hooker I fucked about 5 years ago went even to the same uni as I and was paying her tuitions this way.
I am speaking about the UK, most girls are actually freelancing here, it is their choice to do it or not. Nobody is forcing them.
Maybe they cannot find better job (particularly when they come from poorer European union country and dont even speak english properly) but it is still their choice to be here and do that.
Of course there are other countries where prostitution is forced but in general in this business there is also lot of girls who do it from free will either because it is the only thing they can do, or they like the money they can earn and life standard it can provide or do it for some other personal reason for example they have a baby and no other way to support it and choose this.

 

Could be. I read an article in news about women doing this job and saying they like it cause their clients take them abroad and their clients like to present their escorts as their girlfriends and such.

I dont know how stuff is in UK or other countries.

 

If you still haven’t done it, I’d advise you not to. The simple reason being that you’ll develop a very worrying habit of fretting about whether you’ve got an STD or not. Every little Symptom (sneeze, cough etc) will lead you to think you’ve been infected. I’ve seen post of forums such as MedHelp full of similar cases. You don’t want to do this. It can cause a lot of anxiety issues. Better be a virgin than a nervous wreck