I am wondering if having female contact after a reboot of 30-90 days, is essential to achieving a reboot. I am dating a girl(our first date was last night) we just hugged, held hands, and kissed Is female contact important for rewiring our neural pathways? Or will it set me back if I orgasm with her too early? It seemed like she wanted to have sex last night, but I knew I wasnt ready so I just dropped her off. Also now I keep fantasizing about her. Are fantasies essentially porn in your head? and Will that set me back?