Feeling dissatisfied about my genitals size

Discussion in 'Problematic Sexual Behavior' started by DarkWarrior98, Jan 24, 2019.

  1. davyjones01

    davyjones01 Fapstronaut

    Hi.....I thought I would right here as some of what you are saying rings true with me. I worry about my size and do I satisfy my missus. I even ask her and even at times embarrassed by my manhood and yet she has never said anything negative about my size. She tells me I feel amazing....and it’s about how we feel when we are together not just about my manhood. Porn I think makes us focus on just this area and nothing more. Porn films never show two people who love each other being intimate....passionate kissing....touching and being completely connected. It just focuses on the groin area mostly so it’s no surprise that’s what we are fixated on. My missus even has said she don’t like anything big as it’s not for her anyway.....that at times just makes me think I must be small then lol I can’t win. No girl has ever said anything negative about my size so I know it’s in my head but still it niggles away at me. Maybe if Porn did focus on love and passion between two people this is what we would focus and worry about not just the size of our dicks.
     
  2. ximin

    ximin Fapstronaut

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    i found my ... well that part of me got a lot bigger oftentimes when i stopped fapping for just a couple of days.

    however, i really want to say: i am not the normal dude when it comes to evaluating penis size. i don't like my penis and i really wish it stayed kinda small and cute. but that's not the reason to milk it myself either. well.
     
  3. DarkWarrior98

    DarkWarrior98 Fapstronaut

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    That's so true, it's about point of view, because it looks so different from looking it downward to look at it in a mirror or even sat.
     
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  4. Theamos

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    I am for sure on the small size.
    I have been with many partners a few commented on the size but seem
    Satisfied
     
  5. DarkWarrior98

    DarkWarrior98 Fapstronaut

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    hi thank you for your comment, that's exactly what I thin, porn has made us focus just in the "size" but not a normal size, those dicks are modified from the POV to look bigger and longer. Same problem with me.. I have been with 2 girls (ex gfs) and they never said anything about a "little" or "small" dick, quite the opposite they said that they love it, it is about what we think about our perception, porn has destroyed what we think about a real dick is, or how can you really give pleasure to your partner. Im 25 days free today and I will keep going, feel very good about my size, the more days I pass away from PMO, the better I feel regarding my D.
     
  6. DarkWarrior98

    DarkWarrior98 Fapstronaut

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    The same just happens with me, it looks bigger and thicker when Im away from PMO, it is about the time we stay away from PMO, you will feel better, your erections, your perception , even your mindset will improve and change for good, our brain has to rewire, to come back to normal, and then you will see, that you should feel proud of what you have, and you won't wish change it.
     
  7. Theamos

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    Porn never effected my view I knew those guys were the exception
     
  8. DarkWarrior98

    DarkWarrior98 Fapstronaut

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    Well, if they look satisfied you should feel proud of you, it is about they way you threat her, the previous game, they oral sex, even if you have a big D or a small one, this topics are important as hell, because girls are more emotional, they wanted to be kissed and caressed.
     
  9. Freddiefox

    Freddiefox Fapstronaut

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    If they are satisfied, that is all that really matters in the size department brother.
     
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  10. DarkWarrior98

    DarkWarrior98 Fapstronaut

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    Read this post a nofap friend just shared with me, and it really helps because it helps to open our eyes to take off the bandage about porn dick sizes

    "https://unravelingsize.wordpress.com/"
     
  11. Theamos

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    Sometimes it is daunting when you see one and wish you were even average. I wonder what girls think when I know they have been with guys bigger
    I know we all say size doesn’t matter but that is not all true. Sometimes a girl might want to see what bigger is like
    Guys are way more up front
     
  12. ximin

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    idk, but i think the common ground is that pmo should be avoided at all costs.
     
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  13. Hey, bud. That link had nude women on it (and some dicks but I'm not gay). It took so much of my will power to close that tab. While I am proud of myself, please don't post a site that might cause someone a relapse.
     
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