Fantasies about wife sharing.

I hope all is well for him I didn't relaize that
QUOTE="Dizzy Lotus, post: 243852, member: 50092"]I'd comment, and then I realised that the OP hadn't been online since November 2014... [/QUOTE]

 

This is exactly my story. I am living in fear and praying that no one misuse those pics which I shared. Although I am not anymore sharing her pics or sexting about her but this wife sharing fantasy still lingers and I am trying really hard to get rid of it. We both love each other a lot and whenever she says that she trusts me, a part of me dies. I really want to get rid of this fantasy. It is such a despicable thing that I don't even want to go to a therapist.

 

I saw someone write that there may be an underlying problem, and there might be. I won't to give the flip side of this coin if no one has yet. More and more people have fetishes about cuckold porn or wife sharing porn, and there is a reason that more and more have recently. In the last few years this has become super mainstream on porn sites. There are categories for this. So if you look at this type or porn and masturbate to it enough, it becomes a "fetish" to you, until you abstain long enough. I have looked at plenty and thought to myself that it would. But I know the reality of where this would lead, possibility of breaking my marriage and more. The thing about addiction is that if you feed it you will look for more and more, soon you may actually try that reality out. It won't end like it does in porn or amateur porn, and do you really won't to be the beta male in the corner watching? Stop looking at porn and this will eventually go away. Good Luck

 

I have done exactly the same things, using ligthly dressed pics of my gf posing as her to get attention and validation, long ago now, and i told her.
Were still together.

For me it was escapism, i have had a hard few years lately with parents getting severly ill, going through a crisis living very far away from them and lots of other miserable shit.


Feels like shit ”using” her like that, but she knows how greatly remorseful i am, knowing that behaviour isnt who i am, especially not nowadays.

Almost 2 years have gone and i havent seen her pics anywhere, and none of the more nsfw ones ever had her face in them.


I am so glad she understood me when i told her

 

I’ve actually shard my wife. Never posted any pics. We like to keep it private. I’ve watched and shared her quite a few times. Such a huge turn on

 

Why are you here?

 

Can totally relate to alot of things in here. I have done alot of the same things which i am ashamed of. This is a much bigger addiction to me than porn. I can go ages without porn. But this sort of thing gives me strong urges. Ive had a couple of longish streaks...58 days, 38 days etc but not matter how long it goes i always go back to this sort of thing. Chat sites showing my wife and pretending to be her. I dont even feel like watching porn, its mainly this. In a way its even worse because all the bad sexual thoughts in my head are to do with my wife. And im not even in the fantasies. Things went beyond just showing a few pictures in chatrooms, eventually i signed up to a kink website and made a fake profile and showed a whole gallery of intimate photos without showing the face. Thats probably gone beyond what alot have done in here.

im always trying with nofap but i worry i may never be able to fully recover from this.

 

Your fetish was porn induced but you have to stop engaging in subset fantasies revolving around it too. You're just strengthening the neural connection to that fantasy by indulging it. You have to fully abstain that means no porn, no actively fantasizing, no chat sites etc. Also if you've been indulging in this for years you can't expect to be free after a few decent streaks. If you truly want to get past this, you can.