Falling for her...

(Sorry English is not my first language)

Well buddy, here are some tips that if you want you can follow...

1- Don't give a sh*t about stereotypes, they are just stereotypes... useless things that idiot people believe in.

2- You are going to left school, huh? What if maybe your parents want to travel to another country/continent??... now you can't see that girl anymore!

Buddy, you need to say what you feel to her before it's too late.

Probably in the future, when you are now an adult you are going to hate yourself because you didn't told her what you feel...

I know people that did this and now they (After YEARS!) still think about it: "Why i didnt tell him/her!!?" say them sometimes... You buddy... you have a great opportunity right now.

So, say what your feel to her and probably get a yes!...or stay with the suffering and lost her and then cry everytime you think in her...

It's your choice.

 

You're Indian, aren't you?

 

If u wanna talk a bit more, msg me

 

Damn bro, you should just chase greatness

 

What the fuck.

Don't do either of those two things.

 

Because staring at someone's pics is rather inappropriate and peculiar.

Doing so irl will probably get you slapped.

Just befriend her and be normal.

 

Wtf is all this crap... At the end of the day you should be asking yourself:

Relationship wise: Do I like her? Or am I just lusting for her?

- If you like her, and can ask her out then do so. Shows confidence.
- If you like her, but can't ask her out then you're wasting your time. You're not confident enough. Go work on improving yourself.
- If you're lusting for her, dont ask her out.

You'll come off as an creep, desperate, and needy. You only see her as your new fuck pillow. You dont care for her emotions just her body.

First off you lack confidence and self respect. You need help... You know nothing of her, yet putting her on an pedestal. Then you come here to present this fictitious, delusional mindset about what you believe she feels about you.

As an dude I will say you're creepy as fuck and sick in the head. Hell, if I knew who this woman was I'd personally go and ask her out myself. I'd take an photo as I bang her, send it to you, and you'd be fine with that because it's another pic for your collection. You dont love her, you just lust for her... cut the crap and be honest with yourself.

Fight me...

 

Chill. You're a 30-year-old man and this kid is just 17. What were you like at 17? You remember those days? Those days when you would also lust after the girls of your age.
There's nothing wrong with lusting after girls. To me lusting means only caring about looks/wanting to have sex. I do agree that it isn't love, but what does it matter? Maybe he does just want to sleep with her, if she wants that too then both are winning. At this age, relationships are basically built around mutual sexual desire. The only problem here is the lack of confidence. It isn't good to keep following her from the shadows, having delusional daydreams which then turn into unrealistic expectations. So I do agree that doing this is creepy and self-destructive. There's really no point in doing that, if you really want her, just go for it, don't lurk around.

 

Sometimes people need an rude awakening to come back to reality. By all means sugar coat all that is going on then...

His close friends gave him advice, but he took no action. He said he didnt care for the opinion of others so I gave my 2 cents.

Edit: When I was 17 I sure as hell didnt act that way lol.

 

This seems like very strange behavior, borderline obsessive compulsive.

I don't know if stalking/photo collecting is a cultural characteristic of dating in India (not familiar with India too much), but I don't think females like this kind of treatment.

You say you love her, but you're speaking as if you aren't even friends with her: "I can see her enjoying life", "she is told to be funny", why aren't you saying "she really enjoys life when we hang out" or "shes so funny when we talk together". Do you even interact with her on any social level? If not, I would slow your roll.

I'm not even sure if you'll view this opinion as valid, since the way you view your society is through such a weird lens. Best advice I can give is become the guy that females want to date: be fun to be around, have decent fitness, make them laugh. Pretty simple recipe.

 

This is why I don't ask girls out. I don't know them on that level and I'd rather become someone better since I am currently a mess

 

As long as you're improving, that's what matters. Don't be intimidated about asking a girl out. Rejection and failure itself are very valuable experiences and building blocks towards self-improvement. You also get over regrets or doubts you had, "maybe she would have said X or Y".

 

The thing is that I don't want a strictly sexual relationship and I feel that it would quickly descend to that level. So, I will not get into a relationship at this moment.