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Failed!

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by rlrecovery, Dec 3, 2013.

  1. rlrecovery

    rlrecovery Fapstronaut

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    So, about 10 minutes ago, I failed! It's my fault because I was having interaction with a few people and exchanged sensual dialogue that made me rage inside. Failed big time :(. The clock starts over.
     
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  2. Blue

    Blue Fapstronaut

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    You lost a battle, but you're still winning the war. Recovery is a process. We make progress in fits and starts. You're better off now than you were when you started NoFap. Keep going!
     
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  3. rlrecovery

    rlrecovery Fapstronaut

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    Love you brother. Thank you for that encouragement!
     
  4. FapFreeForever

    FapFreeForever Fapstronaut

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    You haven't failed because you're here. You just had a slip. Let it go and please ditch the negative language "I failed. It's my fault" etc because it will lead you back to relapse. It's not the end of the world because you slipped and you're not a bad person. You're a good person who will beat this. All the very best to you.
     
  5. rlrecovery

    rlrecovery Fapstronaut

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    Awesome encouragement. Definitely needed the tough love. Moving forward!
     
  6. You_Can_Do_lt

    You_Can_Do_lt Fapstronaut

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    I'm with FapFreeForever - you haven't failed because you're still here. Take note of what circumstances led to your slipping, and learn from that! Someone else on here said we're turning stumbling blocks into stepping stones.
    Keep up the good work. One minute, hour, and day at a time!
     
  7. Herald

    Herald Fapstronaut

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    Failure to succeed, does not mean failure to progress.

    Learn what went wrong correct it and keep moving.

    You will only truly fail if you give up.

    I believe in you. Go on, towards awesomeness! And then beyond.
     
  8. rlrecovery

    rlrecovery Fapstronaut

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  9. Mark

    Mark Distinguished Fapstronaut

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    There is no failure, only giving up. There's a Japanese saying, "if you get knocked down six times, get up seven!!'. And another, 'If you drop your noodles, feed em to the poodles!" Ok so I just made that last one up but I guess the moral is never give up and if you make a mistake there's always something positive to be gained if you widen your perspective. 'Don't cry over spilt milk!', 'When things fall apart...make art!!'. Innit!!:)
     
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  10. rlrecovery

    rlrecovery Fapstronaut

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    Lol ha definitely made me smile to read your encouragement.
     
  11. ToGoBeyond

    ToGoBeyond Fapstronaut

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    Hey RLrecovery! Don't give up! Failing is just a part of learning process! Every time when you fail, just be aware why do you fail?, what the reason the driving the urge/trigger to what porn? Remember! Never give up, keep on working toward your goal to overcome urges/trigger! Over time, you going to over come it! :)
     
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