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Failed at sex again today

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Timbogabe7, Feb 1, 2017.

  1. Timbogabe7

    Timbogabe7 Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys today I wasn't able to maintain an erection during sex even tho I was so horny. Idk after my last failure with my ex I guess it hurt my subconscious but then again I don't really feel bad about it with this other girl because she doesn't really care if it happens or not she's really really understanding so I am very comfortable around her. I'm 7months in and she came over today I was pretty hungry but I don't think that plays a role . Long story short I'm not out of the woods still I know that for a fact now . any comments any help. Felt like super man 2weeksago now I feel like idk where I'm at
     
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  2. maca187

    maca187 Fapstronaut

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    How long have you not fapped for etc ?
     
  3. Timbogabe7

    Timbogabe7 Fapstronaut

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    7months clean
     
  4. Fatsodubmo

    Fatsodubmo Fapstronaut

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    I believe our bodies can heal much faster than our brains. The GREAT news is that you have an understanding partner! Have you told her about your addiction?
     
  5. maca187

    maca187 Fapstronaut

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    Was you in hard mode for them 7 months?
     
  6. Deadlihood

    Deadlihood Fapstronaut

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    Damn. PIED's a bitch. Are you taking any medications that could potentially cause ED (or loss in sex drive, etc.)?
     
  7. HappyDaysAreHereAgain

    HappyDaysAreHereAgain Fapstronaut

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    You are still superman.
    If you have gone 7 months hard and clean, you are awesome.
    I would suggest building a good relationship with someone that is special. At your age, unless you have health issues like diabetes, you are healthy and your body should function just fine. Are you experiencing wet dreams?
    If it isn't a physical problem, it is a head problem. Your head could use all the help it can get from your heart. Find a girl, get to know her, enjoy being with her, hold off on the intercourse,relax with her until sex isn't so much about your performing as it is about becoming one.
     
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  8. DBug

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    Really sorry for you man but as the others already said you did very well! 7 months is huge! Maybe it is still due to porn that you had/have problems again/still but it could be any number of reasons: Do you have feelings for another girl? Have you been under a lot of stress lately? Or maybe you really were just very hungry and/or too tired! Only you can find that out! Stay strong!
     
  9. Fork2323

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    Some people you just dont have chemestry with.. iv had some girls who just a text from them will make me rock hard, others kissing them makes me limp and we have no chemestry at all.. it might be that she just turns you off.
     
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