Facing the truth

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by codingmaster2014, May 15, 2019.

  1. codingmaster2014

    codingmaster2014 Fapstronaut

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    I’ve finally accepted that I will never find someone. I will never attract women. How I know this? Because I’ve been shunned in the face by one.

    I will still continue to do nofap but it’s hard continuing when you know that women won’t like you. Today I’ve been berated by one. She called me arrogant, selfish and forever a loner. It didn’t affect me because it’s true.

    I don’t think I’ll ever find someone and I don’t mind because I’m not all that. I thought I was attractive, charismatic, funny and likeable. It turns out I’m none of those things.

    Plus SOME women are absolute bitches. They know how to really make you feel shit and purposefully go for the heart. I’m done. I don’t care about getting a woman because I’ve got all the people I need who I love and care.
     
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  2. CH3RRY

    CH3RRY Fapstronaut

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    Man you are only 18, just like me. You have too little experience to say something like this. Whoever this female was, she is just one out of billions. And her opinion on you is also just one out of billions. But there is something that made her say those things. What happened that made her react so negatively?
     
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  3. ClickClickBoom

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    Don't put yourself through this, you're giving women too much power over your life. The opinion of 1 women shouldn't remove you from your center, women turn us men down, you will get ALOT more NOs then YES thats reality, in the end of the day it's a numbers game you will eventually find what you're looking for but its important for you to show up in life and keep trying to get what you want.

    Also, your a young man your life is only beginning, why would you throw in the towel so early? You still have a long road ahead of yourself.

    Women like what they like, that's their problem, you should only be worried about improving yourself, your life quality and becoming a better human being.
    Don't relie on the validation of other.

    Best wishes,
     
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  4. codingmaster2014

    codingmaster2014 Fapstronaut

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    I didn’t want to meet up with her. She was annoyed that I didn’t want to meet up. There were other things too, I was being very arrogant about it. I own up to that.
     
  5. codingmaster2014

    codingmaster2014 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks a lot. I’ve realised that I shouldn’t change myself for others. I should improve myself for my own benefit. I have many good qualities and I should learn to embrace them. I’m not going to listen to the opinions of others and instead focus on myself. Live my life to the best and you’re right. I’ve a long road ahead of me, I should prioritise my goals and make my family proud.
     
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  6. selfimprovement8008

    selfimprovement8008 Fapstronaut

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    Women are a constant roller coaster of emotions that are illogical and irrational at times. At times I myself find myself in a deep pool of emotions and end up wasting time and energy.
     
  7. Despicable me

    Despicable me Fapstronaut

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    You are approaching this thing from a wrong side. She wanted to meet up with you, and you didn't want to. She was hurt/disappointed because of that. So she wanted to hurt you too, and she did. To whome are you lying that it didnt affect you, of course it did and thats normal. Next time lose the arrogance and things will go smoother. If you feel bad about that you were arrogant, go and appologise to her and tell that you had other things to do and you "maybe" came off as a bit arrogant. And I have to dissapoint you on that youll never find a woman and will be a loner forever. You wont!
     
  8. Despicable me

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    Don't let someone else's opinion of you become your reality.

    Les Brown
     
  9. ClickClickBoom

    ClickClickBoom Fapstronaut

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    You are absolutely right
     
  10. OnTheEdge

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    I wouldn't worry about this at all. A woman you're married to could just as easily say that sort of thing. Usually they try and make you feel bad because they dislike themselves.
     
  11. paw9192

    paw9192 New Fapstronaut

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    you should watch RSD videos. type in youtube : rsd max or rsd tyler. Start learning from them. read tons of articles how to pick up girls. Buy or download book : double your dating !
    It all helping me alot. im average guy and i know that i need to get to know all these tricks...
    Im lonely as well, but trying to overcome all that anxiety to aproach.
    I know guys who learned all this shit and now they have plenty of girls.
    You need to work very hard for sucess. VERY. It can take you sometimes even 1-2 years.

    Not all girls are the same.
     
  12. Inner-Freedom

    Inner-Freedom Fapstronaut

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    I believe apart of the process of quitting pornography is learning how to treat yourself better. We always examine people and external things from the outside in, we should seek to look within first then move forward, try it out and you'll experience a whole new world of Inner-Freedom.
     
  13. NF SINCE BIRTH

    NF SINCE BIRTH Fapstronaut

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    You sound depressed. None of this is really true.
     
  14. Good. Acceptance is the first step to go. Know your place in the world. NoFap will help you calibrate to a celibate lifestyle. just dont give up.
     

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