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Experiencing some issues

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by Letsgethealthy587, Oct 14, 2018.

  1. Oct 14, 2018 #1
    Letsgethealthy587

    Letsgethealthy587 New Fapstronaut

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    I tried nofap for 90 days, I made it 70 days and eventually met a girl. It has been my first real relationship. I also lost my virginity! Things have been going well but I noticed I have been problem staying hard while changing positions. I always feel I could be a bit harder. I'm not sure what to do, it is frustrating not being able to be stay hard the whole time. I'm not sure what to do. I am still off porn and masturbation.
     
    Letsgethealthy587, Oct 14, 2018
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  2. Oct 15, 2018 #2
    torrace

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    Congrats on meeting someone! And also glad you chose to give your virginity to someone you care about.

    Regarding staying hard whilst changing positions, I do believe its normal to become soft when stimulation stops, and when you getting to know your partner better. To put things in context, I only ever had oral sex. Whenever the stimulation stop (to change position or some other reason), my erection does wane a little. Also initially my erection did wane due to the following reasons:
    1. My body isn't used to someone else touching me, no matter how attractive she is.
    2. Nervousness or fear regarding performance and being self-conscious
    Don't blame yourself too much. It is a new relationship with someone new. Enjoy every step (even the not so great steps). Open up to her on these issues (you becoming soft) as talking about it can help unblock certain mental barriers.

    Stay strong OP

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