Every. Single. Person. Can. Change.

Ok first of all, i can understand your desire to be with a woman, espcially a good looking one that is fun to be around.
But forget that you will have good looling woman approaching you unless you are a tall, model looking type of guy.
And if you would, we wouldn't be having this conversation.
I have never ever had any attractive girl approaching me. Running away from me yes. But never towards.
The little success i had up until now only happened because i had to walk up.
And i never mentioned all the rejections and failures i had prior to the success.
I was madly in love with a girl and we were reasonably close and when i tried to kiss her, she literally jumped backwards and did the no way!- pose with her arms.

I have had 1 girl who was willing to sleep with me at age 31. And another who was willing to kiss me. Accomplishments? Always depends on how you look at it.
Of course i want to have a girl i text with every night, that also looks good and is fun to be around.
Especially on stressful days.
Life is not a make a wish foundation.

But i know what high quality woman like to do.
They like to dance.
They like to do yoga.
They like art in a Museum.
They like to go for a run outside and go to the gym.
They like to study in libraries.

If i want to meet the woman that are interesting for me, i need to go look for them in those places.
Of course you will meet them on the street. But then you meet them without having any common ground.
Even just trying to learn how to dance is very interesting in a man for a woman.
Because literally nobody does it.

I am also learning body language so i can figure out which ones are neutral or positive and which ones want to kill me. So i know i can skip the murderers and go to the indifferent and positive ones.

You need to step out of your comfort zone and do shit that a high quality woman would do.
But it has to be something you also enjoy on a certain level, otherwise it would be fake and most woman sense that right away.

I am literally moving close to a big city right now, just because the numbers are of high quality woman are way higher. If i fk it up with one, there are 5000 other cute girls i can have a try with and fail until i find one.

That is reason enough for me to move.

And with other success stories...

There was a guy here who needed one and a half years to succeed and be able to have enjoyable sex.
I am dedicated to this because i know that life will pay me back later if i push through this hell now.

But it is still hell right now. Having no girl to kiss, cuddle or sleep with, having to move to a city where i don't know anyone, with a new employer...

We have to live at the edge of our capabilities to grow.

I really want you to succeed, i want this to happen to every single person. Not just on this forum, in general.
But not everyone wants to go through the necessary personal changes, because the like who they are.




My whole personality had to change in order to become even a tiny bit successful with woman.
I am actually a different person then who i was before 2 years ago.

I literally had to change who i am to get a chance with those weird, but fascinating creatures called females.
But i am going to change more and more now, accelerating my growth.

We will be knocked down, time and time again.
Lost streaks, another women who rejected us, being lonely during stressful times, failure at work or someone really getting to us, for whatever reason.

But we are humans, and we have the amazing ability to chose how we deal with all of that.

A streak can be restarted before falling into the whole again.
There are other women out there, and she has no obligation to like me.
Use the forum. Call a friend. Write a friend or family.
Be honest about mistakes at work and learn from them. Everybody makes mistakes. Its about how we deal with them.
Maybe someone just lost his house or flat or the girlfriend or wife left him. Not your fault, just let it go. Rage about it to let the emotions out once the person is gone, then let it go.

There is a good way to deal with everything.

Good luck

 

The girl and me were probably both thinking the same before that happened. I know i was.
But i also know something else. While she told everyone she met me, apparentely she told nobody that we kissed.

I think that makes the difference. Girls rarely walk around telling others when something like this happens, so they don't come across as slutty.
And that girl wasn't slutty at all. She wasn't wearing anything to draw a mans attention, outside of her face. Long pants, fully closed off top and long sleeves. Nothing about her appearance said "come and get me".

But think back. Have you ever met anyone in your life you just talked to for 1 hour and were absolutely drawn to that person, and your whole body screamed for a kiss?
Well... that happened to us. And since we are both fairly confident, we were able to close off the surroundings.
It was just us.
In the moment.
Being alive.
Feeling alive.

Doing what humans are here for on this planet.
To enjoy this journey we call life.
For a small blink of time, we became one.
And it was beautiful.

 

That depends on what i define as a quality woman : )

And for me, a quality woman actually enjoys to be fit, just for the sake of being fit and healthy.

 

Tell that to superman.

BOOM BTCH

I mean... wonderful creature.

 

In real life, i would do that right away, with a biiiiiiiiig smug on my face.
If you said that with a smile to my face, or at least without any anger, aggression or negative attitude, i would probably come close to your ear, and whisper it, in a way you can barely hear it, combined with either a playful push away from me afterwards or a looooooong and deep look into your eyes.

But this is the internet. I can't see how you feel and aren't able to determine whether you are smiling when you write it or if this is meant seriously or not. And while i believe it is the start of what could be a beautiful banter, is this specific case, i won't.

And i would have preferred sending this as a private message, but you have limited access.
Literally.

 

You couldn't even knock me out if you had the muscles.

Because you are stuck in the kitchen using them to make me a sammich.
And don't forget the cheese.

 

Probably your rabbit and your cat, who get along miracoulasly well for some suspiciously awkward reason.

 

Just for you.


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